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This thread is helpful already. Thanks to everyone who has commented thus far. For what it's worth, I'm a decent middle aged guy, take good care of myself (gym daily; not a fat slob) and can easily carry a fun/pleasant conversation with any woman. Not weird or quirky. I have money to spend; $200-$300 for a good fun evening. I am only interested in mild extras (touching). Any additional suggestions/comments are appreciated. I'll reciprocate with a good club review for TUSCL (like the one I did previously) after I visit the club next week.

Ok, I appreciate that comment. As you can see, I am totally new at this. Can you give me some minimal guidance on how to approach this? Say a dancer asks me if I'm interested in a VIP private dance. Do I politely ask her about her comfort level with touching? I certainly don't want to go into a private dance and create a problem by putting my hands where the dancer won't be happy. For what it's worth, I am not totally new to TUSCL. I posted a review of Cheeta's in Sunnyvale a few weeks ago here: https://tuscl.net/review.php?id=385067