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4 years ago
Wlnex.... I haven't asked....So I don't even know how she would feel about that? She's so confusing that I can't even speculate...
Bavarian....That's what I'm saying why would she fuck up something good? The age gap is 10 years.
Tetradon.....And perhaps it would've been that way had she not started acting the way she did. Overall I still feel like she's a magnificent person without a doubt...Her reaction also bothers me because it makes me feel bad. It makes me feel guilty because I realize that she's at her job. I don't intend to anchor her for her entire shift, I don't want her get that impression, and I don't want her job to become stressful....She has uniquely sunny disposition which most people don't have, she radiates positive energy, but somewhere along her life I get the impression that something went seriously wrong. I feel like there's perhaps a sad past and maybe dancing was her escape. So I'm dealing with feelings of a lot of guilt because it wasn't my intention to upset her. I wasn't trying to get a reaction out of her but apparently I got one and I honestly feel really bad about it.......But what was I supposed to do? When I started talking to other dances I just wanted to socialize. There's nothing else to do but just sit there and you can't even be on your phone. She was busy working and I totally get it but I was also there to enjoy myself....I wish she would realize that.
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4 years ago
Winex....Many times that I've come into to see her she's implied that I'm there just to keep her company. Never pushes dances. That's what I don't get.....I don't get this girl I really don't.....
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4 years ago
Twentyfive - Guess it's the nature of the game
CJKent - That's unfortunate because It took real liking to her
Shallyn - Yeah once they start seeing the cash flowing elsewhere all of a sudden it's an "issue"
Wallanon - She needs to learn that it doesn't work that way or she'll defunded even further...lol
Wlnex - Our connection seemed sincere. She NEVER asked for tips like ever despite always putting her best foot forward in the past. Im not an asshole so I would still tip her generously but it seems that made her take me for me granted. Either way I have nothing bad to say about her. She's a very sweet girl and a wonderful human being. I don't hold any grudges against her it what it is. I find her behavior peculiar and juvenile but not with malice.
Herbtcat - That's my point she's not my gf so there shouldn't be any expectations of exclusivity from EITHER side. She's never been about money. She's NEVER asked me for a tip and I could tip her $1 or I could tip her $1,000 or anything in between and it wouldn't make a difference. She was always cool with, without, small tip, or big tip (pun not intended) and that's peculiar because it's a stripper's M.O. I appreciate your advice and agree that perhaps I was too nice to her and now she's begun to take me for granted and placed me in bad position (how she now perceives me). I don't agree with the steakhouse analogy though. To me strip clubs are more like high end residential complexes rather than steakhouses. High end residential complexes are staffed by concierge. As individuals each concierge has a different personality. So are more likable than others by the residents but all it really takes is to roll out the red carpet. The red carpet is the name of the game. Treat every single resident as if THEY are the most important person in the entire world. Of course if a resident is a disrespectful and tight waded asshole, that may not prove to be possible....BUT when a resident is polite (and this is the vast majority) and takes care of concierge really well ($$$$ tips) it is concierge's responsibility to maintain that level of satisfaction. Such professionalism literally pays off very well. Wealthy residents tend to remember even the smallest gestures by residential staff and WILL compensate them very well......As a result, concierge goes above and beyond for the most generous residents because they don't want to risk their tips. I feel the same concept for SCs but perhaps that's just too much logic for a dancer to fathom.
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4 years ago
NAAASTY....She did so she's really trying to probably fuck with my head and has succeeded. You're right about that. When I go see her the conversation steers to extras and "poorly mannered" men who tried to engage her in those extras.....Im my head Im just like "ok and? that's the nature of the business".....That's like a firefighter saying can you believe I went to warehouse blaze and flames almost caught me?....
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4 years ago
CJ...It's almost like a guilty conscience....Like a thief telling you they didn't steal something when in fact they did. What might she feel guilty of???? I'm not tripping over this but even if I was why would she care?....Why does she feel she has a need to explain herself. I think she's an awesome girl and again Im grown man and know what Im doing. I like her a lot but I thread carefully....Im not trying to cross boundaries and respect hers.....I don't think Ive ever come across a dancer like that.....
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4 years ago
CJ....I get that, in fact I handled it a way that threw her off. When she said "no" I was like "ok cool". I never lost my composure nor did I start acting like a dick towards her. I still treated her nice, respectfully, and polite. I didn't make it awkward, in fact injected humor into the whole thing. I threw her off so much that her initial response to me respecting her wishes, was defensive and argumentative, as if she was expecting me to be angry at her....Not all...I think she's really cool and this didn't change what I think about her. I still enjoy her dances even for less mileage. What I don't get is why SHE keeps bringing up extras and telling me that guys keep asking for full service and she keeps rejecting them? Nobody asked her all of that and I haven't pushed for it either. So what is the point that she is trying to make?
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5 years ago
*tongue wrestle with him.
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5 years ago
Icey but we do have sex it’s just so impersonal. Just come and go literally. It just feel distant and unemotional. Ive known this dancer for a long time and have done a lot for her. It wasn’t with the intention of receiving something in return but rather out of kindness. I am extra generous to her in every way. I donate to her more than double what another customer would. We meet up at least once a week and there are allowances as well. I get what many say about looks, I’m not a model but not hideous either but if it came down to looks in this world then why are many rich guys hooked with up beautiful girls? They see monetary advantage in staying in that arrangement so they make a sacrifice to keep the arranger happy. Ive known this dancer for a very long time now and she has always emphasized and has been a “critic” of kissing. I always figured it was the whole Pretty Woman thing so I left it alone and never presses the issue. Years back I attempted DATY and she hit me with the same excuse. Her excuse seemed legitimate up until I found out that she was engaging in this with others whom she barely just met and barely tip her the change in their pocket. That was disappointing and hit like a bucket of cold water. What makes matters worse is that she won’t even let me give her innocent kisses on the cheek, when I try she pulls away and tells me that “I’m going to mess up her make up” and then to think that she had no second thoughts of making out with some dude she just met, tongue wrestle with me, and then let him stick his tongue deep inside of her, was really disheartening.
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5 years ago
Icey There is no reason for the reviewer to lie. He gains nothing for making this up, it’s not like he’s trying to get street credit by writing bogus reviews, he has plenty of them. There is every reason for the dancer to lie because now a good source of income has become displeased with the service or lack thereof and there is really no way to around it but for her to lie.
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5 years ago
Fun_loving If the cat is out of the bag. Why lie? No problem or jealousy with other guys doing the SAME
thing. Problem is when your service is lousy for you yet top notch for others while you’re dishing out better donations. She can simply say I dont like you period point blank. In my book that type of honesty earns nothing but respect. From that point on we can both move on instead of going around in circles.
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5 years ago
But I guess she could overlook that because the guy was charming enough. Wonder how those dingleberries tasted.
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5 years ago
JamesSD Yeah and neither is making out with a guy who eats ass at some of the nastiest places around where girls go all the way BB.
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5 years ago
fun_loving. Not if she was honest. Like listen say listen “you repulse me” and the other guy was a stud so I think you can figure there rest out.
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5 years ago
His reviews are credible. He has good experiences and bad experiences on there. How can the review pose problem? He clearly stated on his review that she was cool, described the events, and that he RECOMMENDS her to others but that she just wasn’t for him. Not once does he say anything negative about her. How would it cause problems?
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5 years ago
Twentyfive. The review was not anonymous and it was done by someone with a lot of credibility. According to his reviews he has lapped girls that has finds very attractive and would pay them future visits. With this other girl he did more but said she wasnt his type and that he would not be returning. What reason does he have to lie or write a bogus review. That review seems honest and appears as though he narrated his encounter. Again what reason does have to lie?
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5 years ago
Twentyfive. How was it a dick move?
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5 years ago
Rickdugan. Well she never seemed to be in that mood with me and she would actually talk about how she doesn’t like the idea of strangers kissing and in the club she would say that dancers making out with customers was disgusting.....But yet...
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5 years ago
San_Jose....Both ITC and OTC. No wife and the guy who lapped her said he wouldn’t even be returning for more rounds. He actually said that she wasn’t his type.
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5 years ago
San Jose. Have been seeing her for a long time. The ones who have DFK’d her and DATY her were new blood so shit like this makes me overthink. Did she actually like that other new guy or was it just a ploy to get him hooked?
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5 years ago
Fun_Loving. I did. Was told that the by her that the review was BS. Everything was denied.
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5 years ago
Icey and San Jose But what if she won’t do it with you but will do it with others?
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5 years ago
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San Jose Guy....So is it real attraction or just a ploy to hook a new customer?
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5 years ago
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CC99 So if a girl allows DFK at an AMP but doesnt do it with others does she mean that she actually likes you?.....Like you’re a new customer and she makes out with you but doesn’t do that with a long time customer who is a big spender and tips more then you.
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5 years ago
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San Jose Guy.....So would you say that if girl chooses to make out with you at an AMP but not with other customers does that mean that she actually likes you?