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Wlnex.... I haven't asked....So I don't even know how she would feel about that? She's so confusing that I can't even speculate... Bavarian....That's what I'm saying why would she fuck up something good? The age gap is 10 years. Tetradon.....And perhaps it would've been that way had she not started acting the way she did. Overall I still feel like she's a magnificent person without a doubt...Her reaction also bothers me because it makes me feel bad. It makes me feel guilty because I realize that she's at her job. I don't intend to anchor her for her entire shift, I don't want her get that impression, and I don't want her job to become stressful....She has uniquely sunny disposition which most people don't have, she radiates positive energy, but somewhere along her life I get the impression that something went seriously wrong. I feel like there's perhaps a sad past and maybe dancing was her escape. So I'm dealing with feelings of a lot of guilt because it wasn't my intention to upset her. I wasn't trying to get a reaction out of her but apparently I got one and I honestly feel really bad about it.......But what was I supposed to do? When I started talking to other dances I just wanted to socialize. There's nothing else to do but just sit there and you can't even be on your phone. She was busy working and I totally get it but I was also there to enjoy myself....I wish she would realize that.

Winex....Many times that I've come into to see her she's implied that I'm there just to keep her company. Never pushes dances. That's what I don't get.....I don't get this girl I really don't.....

Twentyfive - Guess it's the nature of the game CJKent - That's unfortunate because It took real liking to her Shallyn - Yeah once they start seeing the cash flowing elsewhere all of a sudden it's an "issue" Wallanon - She needs to learn that it doesn't work that way or she'll defunded even further...lol Wlnex - Our connection seemed sincere. She NEVER asked for tips like ever despite always putting her best foot forward in the past. Im not an asshole so I would still tip her generously but it seems that made her take me for me granted. Either way I have nothing bad to say about her. She's a very sweet girl and a wonderful human being. I don't hold any grudges against her it what it is. I find her behavior peculiar and juvenile but not with malice. Herbtcat - That's my point she's not my gf so there shouldn't be any expectations of exclusivity from EITHER side. She's never been about money. She's NEVER asked me for a tip and I could tip her $1 or I could tip her $1,000 or anything in between and it wouldn't make a difference. She was always cool with, without, small tip, or big tip (pun not intended) and that's peculiar because it's a stripper's M.O. I appreciate your advice and agree that perhaps I was too nice to her and now she's begun to take me for granted and placed me in bad position (how she now perceives me). I don't agree with the steakhouse analogy though. To me strip clubs are more like high end residential complexes rather than steakhouses. High end residential complexes are staffed by concierge. As individuals each concierge has a different personality. So are more likable than others by the residents but all it really takes is to roll out the red carpet. The red carpet is the name of the game. Treat every single resident as if THEY are the most important person in the entire world. Of course if a resident is a disrespectful and tight waded asshole, that may not prove to be possible....BUT when a resident is polite (and this is the vast majority) and takes care of concierge really well ($$$$ tips) it is concierge's responsibility to maintain that level of satisfaction. Such professionalism literally pays off very well. Wealthy residents tend to remember even the smallest gestures by residential staff and WILL compensate them very well......As a result, concierge goes above and beyond for the most generous residents because they don't want to risk their tips. I feel the same concept for SCs but perhaps that's just too much logic for a dancer to fathom.

NAAASTY....She did so she's really trying to probably fuck with my head and has succeeded. You're right about that. When I go see her the conversation steers to extras and "poorly mannered" men who tried to engage her in those extras.....Im my head Im just like "ok and? that's the nature of the business".....That's like a firefighter saying can you believe I went to warehouse blaze and flames almost caught me?....

CJ...It's almost like a guilty conscience....Like a thief telling you they didn't steal something when in fact they did. What might she feel guilty of???? I'm not tripping over this but even if I was why would she care?....Why does she feel she has a need to explain herself. I think she's an awesome girl and again Im grown man and know what Im doing. I like her a lot but I thread carefully....Im not trying to cross boundaries and respect hers.....I don't think Ive ever come across a dancer like that.....