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7 years ago
:)
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7 years ago
#pussysowetyoulldrown
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7 years ago
thanks hunny
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7 years ago
just wanted a different lifestyle away from the club and party scene.
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7 years ago
i really dont know how people make it on regular jobs salaries. its crazy
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7 years ago
That's something I think im going to look into!
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7 years ago
yeah I kinda argee to some extend at some point after all of these years of dancing I would like to think I was worth more then something to look at to my customers.
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7 years ago
yeah that's never been easy for me either lol
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7 years ago
My self esteem is just fine. But to honestly answer that I would have to say no. I have only done this pretty much my entire life. Waited tables a year and danced on and off since I was 19 so this is all I know.
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7 years ago
I think another thing in the back of my mind is that I may not have much more time left for dancing as an option and if I spend a couple years doing this and decide I missed out on a few good last years.
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7 years ago
I kinda wanted to be all the way out of that type club. There are several other options but the idea was to get out all together. Plus that part of work isn't why I got out it was more so to get out of the atmosphere.
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7 years ago
No regular place and yeah not at all.
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7 years ago
how is it a fair wage if you cant live on the wage?
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7 years ago
I feel really bad for her. tells the story of a lot of dancers
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7 years ago
I said I was using that as an example obviously you didn't read. so the "man" gave us poor hos a place to pay him to let us work and we should be greatful and not ask for more?
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7 years ago
I am not claiming that I do know anything about it. I am saying invest in the girls you have to keep them around longer. You also have no clue how easy the strip club world can wrap up a girl so quick that she is gone before she knows it also. We are finally starting to talk about PTSD for vets and understand that putting people in certain situations causes them to develop mental problems but we don't do the same for substance abuse. I am not claiming strippers for PTSD obviously but using that as an example. Girls already messed up sometimes and then working at a club are now susceptible to worse things. Not at all claiming its a requirement for clubs to do this but saying it would be nice.
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7 years ago
what expenses do club owners have that are so bad? building rent booze and insurance and power bills. that pretty much it. I mean I know they aren't millionaries at least all of them but there isn't a lot of bills the owners have to pay.
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7 years ago
But lets be honest and say most girl myself included didn't know how to go about the "contractor" stuff including paperwork and how to handle all of that. No one really helps all that much either. Im saying it isn't required but would be helpful.
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7 years ago
Not saying provide it but provide a means to it. Help with time off or set things up to help out girls with child care or getting healthcare. Hell bring in a rep to talk about individual plans. things like that
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7 years ago
So many dancers get hooked and for a whole host of reasons but the end game is the same they are hooked. Taxes cover medical care for disabled people and often times they are disabled because they couldn't put a cheeseburger down long enough to work out or live a healthy lifestyle. No one cares to pay for them but to pay for a rehab center or something like that and everyone looses their minds.
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7 years ago
I have always wondered why the origin of the problem makes people feel differently? Who cares if you got hooked by pills or heroin or booze and who cares about the situation? Bottom line is they are hooked all the same. I just never got that
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8 years ago
im not saying customers I mean clubs themselves. if you take 10 girls 6 have tits like mine and then the other 4 are split between super small and gigantic. I feel like 20 years ago the numbers would show more gigantic and less less average sized girls
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8 years ago
aww stop it making me blush lol
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8 years ago
I guess what I mean is titties don't seem to be the focus anymore. At least the big voluptuous types
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8 years ago
whats that?