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10 years ago
Gawker
It seems our experiences often parallel each other.
I have been awoken by a call from jail from her after she was busted for possession of cocaine, marijuana and roxicodone.
Perhaps the common denominator is that we have drug addict sex workers on our payroll?
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10 years ago
@goonster
I assume you live in a very poor area of the country and/or your ATF is a cheap night walker?
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10 years ago
@jester214
You must the definition of a "pathetic loser." Defending sex workers as "high class" on an online forum. lol. I bet you pay strippers to have dinner dates with you.
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10 years ago
@ lookin_for_wet
Are there "high class" women who take their clothes off for a living and have sex for money?
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10 years ago
Not trying to be rude but I read that thread and looked at pics of that dancer.
She's not exactly my "type"
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10 years ago
@farmerart
Lol, I work in private equity. That's why it's so important none of my extracurricular behavior leads to drug offenses, dui's, etc. Would cause major issues with SEC.
we mostly deal with software startups. Don't have enough knowledge on Nat gas to get involved though a friend of mine constantly talks about it.
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10 years ago
Gawker
For me, I think it's about boredom and emptiness. I find my life to be an empty meaningless sequence of events. The strippers and drugs seem to liven it up, temporarily. But it constantly requires pushing the envelope, because what excites me once I find dull the second time.
Its also about control. I prefer these relationships because she is my subordinate due to the finances. That gets me off, in some way.
I often wake up and wonder "what the fuck is the point of going to work, getting out of bed, or doing anything?" it's all so mundane and meaningless.
I often find myself disgusted and self loathing after sex with this strippers and I want them out immediately.
My "favorite" once asked me "why I'm so unhappy when I have such a nice life." she explained that she had so little compared to me but it seems like I can't appreciate anything. At the time, I blew off the comment. It has since stuck in my mind as a shockingly accurate evaluation.
I assume the strippers will get boring soon and I'll move on to something else.
I have had many self destructive habits, since I was a child. I am just afforded the unfortunate ability to indulge in my vices due to my financial situation. Most people are limited to drown in their vices by monetary confines. Perhaps it would be best if I had those shackles.
Ironically, I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. We have a long distance "relationship" and lately I think she's seeing someone else. I'm not sure how to feel about it. It does bug me though.
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10 years ago
Why get a backpage escort? Aren't most of those ripoffs/scams? I don't know, ive never done it. Seemed like a high chance of getting scammed or arrested.
I have zero interest in hanging out with a sex worker but if I wanted to do that I'd imagine she'd be happy to do it. Getting paid to hang out is probably a lot less soul damaging then getting paid to fuck random guys.
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10 years ago
Lol, I found this funny! But seriously - she never got back to me.
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10 years ago
@looneylarry:
Most people comfortably exist in the confines of the rat race. Perhaps when that is taken away, you may find that life is actually just a meaningless sequence of events.
I always felt like if I "needed" a 9-5 job to make ends meet, I would be more functional out of necessity. That's why I initially got a suit and tie job after grad school.
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10 years ago
@readypayerone:
Yes, my "favorite" stripper worked there until she quit stripping and lived off me. Its an attempt at being more high end, attracting 6 figure professionals, etc. As you may know, a lot of strip clubs down here get very "urban". Even the more expensive ones as they get filled with rappers and athletes. That's not my scene at all. So, I liked e11even. Prepare to spend, though. I was paying this chick $900 for sex and she was working there. But she was also, IMO, the hottest girl there by a mile.
@papi_chulo: fair enough, lol. Miami is a big place, though. I rarely venture off South Beach as I live in one of those islands across from port of miami. Everything is kind of a hassle to get to.
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10 years ago
If anyone is down in Miami, id be happy to prove what I say is real. Just PM me if you are ever in the south beach area.
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10 years ago
That diagnosis was from one of the most "prestigious" residential long term treatment facilities (located in utah). It was also echoed by my first psychiatrist who was harvard undergrad and harvard med school educated.
My current psychiatrist is a woman who basically sells me drugs. She also told me that I was most likely a sociopath but our interactions in person are usually just mindless bullshit for 30-40 mins. She knows I need to see her weekly to keep my trust funds and I know she gets $250 per visit plus $250 for every scrip I want (which is a lot). it's a symbiotic relationship.
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10 years ago
@readypayerone:
Sociopathy
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10 years ago
Why do you think I'm full of shit? Its not like I'm making my life seem particularly glamorous or enviable. Shit, I even offered to pay that one stripper to come down to Miami.
Anyway, strippers are financially irresponsible given their spending when they are at risk of running out of money. Its different when you know that isn't really possible.
I don't claim to be responsible per se, but financially I have a lot of lucrative investments that I've invested money from my trusts in. I spend a lot because I can. I'm never going to end up broke and homeless, or taking my clothes off for money.
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10 years ago
Lol my amex just got hit for $250 by my shrink before the bitch even texted me back about the roxi rx.
Stripper keeps texting me asking if I'd mind making the down payment on her new car.
Surrounded by parasites.
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10 years ago
Thanks to my family, I don't think I'd be able to run out of money even if I tripled my spending. My point is that it felt like a reality check/sobering wake up call to have my family's financial manager tell me I burned through the trust account. At the end of the day, I have little to show for it. Even the material objects bring me zero satisfaction. The last sports car I had before the Mercedes, I crashed so it was a total waste.
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10 years ago
@sharkhunter
Yeah, I'm sure you paying them for sex helped them get their act together. Lol.
The ivy league student moonlighting as a stripper to pay for her education is a myth at best. Young women that strip and have sex for money tend not to end up being doctors and lawyers.
Maybe I attract the especially frivolous, wild strippers because of my tendency to do drugs with them but at the end of the day the spectrum of stripper's mentality doesn't exactly range too much. I've always assumed the ones who claim to be paying for school and aspiring to have X profession were just using that as a hustle for stupid customers.
Just like I hate the "gfe" concept, I want these chick's to be straight with me and in turn I'm straight with them. They know that I only have more money than them because of my parents. I can be real about that. Just like I expect them to be real that they aspire to do nothing other than live off someone else's funds.
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10 years ago
@ranukam: I also go to nightclubs and fuck drunk girls and cocktail waitresses. Its all paying for sex one way or another. A weekend at a nightclub here, to just sit down at a table will run you over a grand anyway.
@superdude: I don't know. She posts it on instagram or something. I don't use social media. She says she doesn't have many friends though. I also don't really give a shit, lol.
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10 years ago
The first time I met her, I had around a $1,000 all in ones on my table. At the time, I thought putting a grand in ones was a good idea (too many rap music videos and vodka)
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10 years ago
@Hard4Dancers: lol, probably re: making it rain. Shed get disappointed if I gave her the money in 100s because it "looked like less" when she took pictures of it.
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10 years ago
@farmerart
If she was driving around in a brand new panamera turbo and living at the Ritz, it'd make more sense. I'm puzzled how someone with no expenses and all disposable income ends up broke.
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10 years ago
I was paying for the drug problem plus the cash I gave her. She literally had no expenses except rent, which was in a shit hole in the ghetto so it was like $750/month. She was getting about 7k in cash consistently every month.
Shed basically tell me about going to these extremely high end clubs and getting bottle service. LIV on a weekend is usually a $1.5k table minimum. When Mark Cuban went to LIV the table MINIMUMS jumped up to $5k-10k.
This is the kind of shit this chick was doing. You can't support that lifestyle on 7k/month. You can't support that lifestyle on 20k/month, really.
I'm also under the impression she left her job on a bad note. She made it seem like she told all the dancers, management, bouncer's to go fuck themselves because she found someone to support her and was "paid" now.
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10 years ago
Lol, good points.
My point was though...her biggest expense, which was cocaine, I was already paying for and there wasn't a boyfriend/pimp. it was truly all spent on bottle service at night clubs.
But you are correct in your assessment. Whenever I'd give this chick a big stack of 20's she'd take pictures of it in all sorts of angles. Then pictures of herself smoking weed, holding the stacks of money, like a rapper or something. Lol.
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10 years ago
Ambition? The strippers I know tend to be very "ambitious" in their quest to not work and live off a rich man.
Lack of responsibility? Agree.
Just boggles my mind how this chick burned through that much cash to end up broke and homeless