Comments by joebyr

@Papi_Chulo I agree with you. As someone who's frequented many different clubs. It's a bit of a turnoff when you see a giant camera with a blinking red light watching you in these rooms. What are they for? Are they keeping tapes? So yeah unless someone knows, for me the place is a miss. Too many other options where you actually have some privacy when you want to loosen up

PF and TS ftw

@MightyMoe Where did they all go, to a different city? To OP I agree with the review. I mean what's great about the place was everyone was really friendly besides like the bouncer guy. But man the main room is so tiny it feels a bit claustrophobic. Owner needs to expand and open it up and then it'd be worth a visit, but not rn

@Cashman1234 Agreed about the possessiveness at times, which I dont really understand since when I go to any club, I usually go to turn my mind off after a long day of work and so I'm usually pretty jovial to everyone, and not playing gossip girl. As far as even having a regular they too sometimes can forget a bit about you too since some do so many dances at multiple clubs. I think the best way is to get digits if there was a way you can swing it, which might require an extra phone for those busier than most. Aforementioned about the VIP, yeah I dont think I could ever do that in a club, I mean 15 minutes in a cramped loud environment makes you feel rushed like you got to perform like Tom Brady without the cameras on (havent been back thee so hopefully). So in that arena for me it's either cash me outside or no way Frank-O!

Rapport and looking at you like you are a person not an atm, so yeah her actually looking at and not thru you is important

This should be a personal matter not a football one. On the football side of things, he is a legend at coaching COLLEGE football. I still remember those years when he didnt coach OSU, but he constantly smashed their dreams with his superb coaching of subpar non-talents such as Tebow and made Chris Leak look like Johnny Unitas. As far as the NFL, yeah I barely watch but I can already tell you that the Jags outside of their green as all heck QB, have absolutely no talent. And thus, I wouldn't expect them to be any other than 0-5 or whatever they are. So either he sticks it out, drafts well and shows results next year, or back to college he goes. Just make sure to keep your private life private, Urban

"She charged us $40 each for the dance" Lawd thats like 2x as much as most other places in the state, perhaps you could have bargained. But hey sounds like you have a keeper so maybe no need for that either!

> Couple girls suggested paypal when I said I spent all my cash What, they didnt even ask you to refinance your mortgage or donate plasma first? Haven't been but they sound like true marriage-worthy maidens from the review!

@mets1986 I don't get the difference in the 4 booths to me they look all the same? Also someone posted in another review that there are cameras somewhere back there but I never see it, maybe I need new glasses!

@eros973, agreed but where else in the tri-state area is better atm? This is go-go land. Really for the best gfe its best to go abroad, but who would want to travel internationally during these times?

@NJBalla I agree about the waste of the room, Ive peeked inside and it reminds me of those old geisha dressing rooms, just a thin wall and a tacky polyester half couch. Ive been to clubs in the midwest where you get a large private room that blocks out a lot of outside noise so its more worth it(these vips, not so much you hear everything). With as much as these clubs make I'm surprised they dont expand. In the flyover states there are so many clubs that are at least 2/3 floors. In Jersey, Im new, maybe they like the intimacy where everyone can see what everyone else is doing? Yeah Im not sure about parlors since I go to the clubs mostly for the socialization rn, often too tired at the end of the night for Sinatra. Seeing that NE Patriots owner get caught in the sting, as well as that Atlanta shooter was a huge turnoff. Maybe if work slows down and I have more energy, one day, I might look into it more. For now, old Joe and all the managers are working everyone too hard, so that most of us have no energy at the end of the night for much else. We are supposed to work to live, not work to live so wtf Joe lol

@NJBalla Right man for the frank issue would only work for me outside not in a rushed loud setting but kudos to those who can thrive in that environment. The women with money only on their mind mindset is a bit of a turnoff, I mean if they wanted to they can make more per one hour than an average man makes in a day right? At least amp seems like you can spend more time and not in a rush. Or better yet go abroad where things aren't so transactional and women arent so brazen to literally call you an atm and not even remember your name.

@JustDude yeah that would be kind of a turnoff for me. Im wearing a mask, let's get up close and personal during a pandemic and breath on each other for 5 minutes. I'd prefer no masks so I dont have to think like that lol

@NJBalla, yep those VIP are a mystery to me. I barely see anyone go in there as it seems the same as the stalls but you have a closed door? Doesn't seem like it would be any more special esp in a club so tightly packed in and small. Those amps do sound appealing if looking for Frank but most of the time its just nice to talk to la Bella after a long day at work. As you mentioned some days it seems times are a changin'. On bad days you got to deal with cranky barmaids, overzealous guards, questionable clientele (its cool dude Im just getting a drink not invading your territory) & sadly girls can be hot/cold some barely remember your name after a couple of visits. After a while one just thinks about doing it the square way and courting a nice girl and trying out that couple thing you know what I'm saying. But then BSC whatever that is calling you back saying hey Olga and Senorita wondering where you been come back in, it'll only be one drink and then the cycle continues...

@Searching4u max dances are 5 per session, does that mean you can only get 5 dances from one girl the whole night, why the max? Also yeah more info from someone about VIP would be helpful. I barely see anyone go in there as it seems the same as a LD but you have a closed door?

@CentralNJGuy Why 25+ at 1:30 pm on a Thursday? Because they dont have real jerbs that's why lol. Most of us are working for the man or going to school then. But yeah I would never go day shift for this stuff, as you would be outnumbered and surrounded.

Good review especially about the territorialness. I remember standing (not even sitting) at least 2 seats away from two rough looking dudes wearing yankees gear and they stared me down expecting me to move. I was tired at the end of the night so I moved to the end of the bar and they were still mean-mugging until they left probably because no girls wanted to be around them either. Anyway, could you specify more about the cameras, I had no idea there were cameras in the back (where many clubs you can clearly see the red light)?

The dancers onstage were all wearing masks when they were dancing, even in the back? We are past a year and a half after the start of the pandemic Ive never seen that before

Only two men? Did you whip yours out too so you could be the three musketeers?

@nucleus you mentioned camera, and I was like what! What do they need that for, seems like some weiner thing and not the good kind but the Anthony kind lol

"you picked one of the tamest NJ gogo bars imo" o K, Thanks I did kind of sense that as I saw Helga come around the bend about 5 times an hour asking for tips lol. For me and other jersey newbies who just go to clubs every once in a while. Where are the decent spots that give more bang for your buck? Lol @NJBalla about the Olga Kurylenko quote, she would be awesome to sit down and chat with since she's intelligent and the full package. Unfortunately most of these girls barely spoke a word besides...this is my name...I am from this country...give me money, and that was about the extent of what I could get them to talk about, maybe my conversation skills have diminished over the years because I am no James Bond lol

What scene is changing in Detroit? I like occasional visits but they are pretty expensive esp with all the extra charges.

1K who does she think she is? Those are featured performer type prices. Like stars with at least a known name. Who spoiled this girl to think she's all that?

probably was I guess, had a nice time with an enthusiastic girl, and then walking out and given a hard time by valet, when in all my travels, detroit is the only place I ever pay for valet (i dont mind parking my own car and walking however far), but I understand its for the economy or something. Anyways when you pay 10 after tip to all these spots, all you expect is hey get me my car, dont scratch it, and be cool, and then it would end the night on a good note, instead of one where most of what you remember is the valet and write a negative review. Anyway, seems like that would be enough for them, but who knows. We're all just here to see the girls anyway, the less club worker dudes I see the better

The cameras are there for safety purposes because its in a bad neighborhood. What other videos would need to be shared?