Comments by Rufus3Firefly

My downfall is the debit card and the ever-present ATM in the club. Usually I enter with about $100 and I like to get additional dances from the dancers I really enjoy. I try to keep it to just a max of a couple of dances but my favorite club typically has 6-8 dancers I really like. Before I know it, I need additional funds because I'm looking at that really sweet dancer with natural breasts and a butt I'd love to kiss.

Hey, there are worse jobs. Cesspool service worker is one that quickly comes to mind. If you've never witnessed a cesspool being filled in or experienced the stench, well, you're lucky. When I first ran into the mens room attendant I said WTF, I know how to turn a faucet, run a soap dispenser and pull a paper towel but the guys do keep the place clean and neat and I appreciate the efforts to entertain including clever conversation and the sports results posted above the urinals. I'm sure they're out there but I haven't encountered a rude attendant. It always seems we're sharing or living the same strip club experience joke. They know why we're at a SC and we're virtually winking at each other as we share the joke. I would never attempt to humiliate these guys by putting less than a bill in their jar. The money they're making is not going toward their Swiss skiing vacation. More likely it's helping put themselves through school or pay the rent. Let's pay these guys some respect.

I have more to say on this subject than I really have time to write about it. I don't think the overall average experience at clubs has changed except to have loosened up a bit. I think the experience varies a bit from club to club, geographically and, most of all, whether you become a regular. Even then, if a club is extremely busy, the dancers aren't necessarily able to spend a lot of time with someone unless it's for additional paid dances. But, as I said, it may depend on the club and especially the dancer. About 6 months ago a hot dancer gave me free dances and offered to meet me outside the club in various contexts. I'm not stupid, I know she was making a long term investment. An investment that was only a little bit of her time in the club but with much more money to be made outside the club. I got a couple of free ones but insisted on paying for most of them. Another time a dancer jumped on my lap and said "why haven't you called me ?" Me: "uh, I don't have your number." She: "Do you want it ?" During subsequent club visits she would discuss anal sex during the lap dance and a meeting at the bar turned into a discussion of personal sexual preferences plus her phone number.