alabamascott

That's funny! But I think it's normal dude. I've been that way all my life.

Thanks Trojan. I usually like to get good mileage/nice looking dancer. She doesn't have to be a perfect 10 by any means. I was in a club last week and had a great VIP with a petite brunette with small tits. She was probably a 6 or 7, but damn that girl could throw a helluva LD. I'll probably check out the Oasis. It sounds like that place is pretty solid. Thanks again.

try a business card. they seem to be less intrusive and the dancer can throw it away if she isn't interested. this works well for me. i've received several emails from a dancer i met a few weeks ago. but only because she's interested in moving to another area (where i am) to work another club area. so, in a way, she's just using it to make more money. if you give out things like that, even phone numbers, remember: dancers do what they do to make money. money is the operative word here folks. i'm sure there's a few exceptions, but i wouldn't go into a strip club looking for the next mrs. scott...

Thanks everyone for the input. Greatly appreciated!

Interesting, I've had several dancers asked if I'm married. When I tell them yes, they don't seem to be turned off by this. In fact, it seems they become more aggressive towards me. Many of my single friends have told stories of bad club experiences. I've concluded that maybe because I do go to the club wearing my ring, it makes the experience all the better. I figured it's the "women wanting what they can't have" factor coming into play. Not sexually, but emotionally. But, I usually try connect with a potential VIP dancer before going behind the curtain. Maybe that's the difference?