How many married guys visit clubs on the DL?
Friday, January 30, 2009 10:38 PM
I'm sure there a bunch of married guys with enlightened wives who support their clubbing habit (and maybe even come along), but I wondered how many other guys keep it on the DL?
When my wife was my live-in girlfriend, she supported me going out with the guys to strip clubs (and I went often), but I don't think she really knew what went on (I lived in NYC at the time, in pre-Giuliani days). Never sought/got any extras, but serious two way contact.
15 years later, I've rediscovered my love of strip clubs. Although I have a great marriage, wonderful family (4 kids), I don't feel the need to tell my wife where I've been.
The hardest part of finding the time (I don't travel for my job, or even commute very far), but there are also money issues (I have the money to spend, but I'm known for being a cheapskate and never shopping, I wonder if my wife will start to question my various $100 and $200 cash withdrawals).
And with my newly rediscovered love of strip clubs, I need to learn to pace myself. 3 clubs in 1 week and I'm trying to figure out how to hit a 4th this weekend. I forgot how much I loved them and I feel like I'm trying to make up for lost time.
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