Presuming the sexier the lady, the less services she has to provide, how much are you willing to give up in the looks department to get more action?
I have always been a little envious of guys that are healthy minded enough that they would rather have FS with a 5 than just have a topless 10 on their laps.
I am more hung up on looks, and can't get off with a condom on anyway. So I guess my sweet spot is a 7 or 8 that is OK with some contact.
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Same boat as you, 7 up. I have dipped to a 6 in desperation now and then. Hey, since I’m a 4, when I’m with a 6 we are a perfect 10 combined!!!
I'll take a GND 7/8 over a high maintenance 10 any day. I prefer a more natural look than bimbo hot anyway.
@PAWG_Patrol bimbos aren't 10's
@sfrsox Both "bimbo" and "10" are completely subjective terms, so believe what you want
@sfrsox most people when they use that numerical scale are referring to looks… so yes.. bimbos can in fact be 10’s…
Gotta admit, I've gone as low as a 3 on a few occasions. But only because I was fucked up and it was near closing time, so it was that or blue balls. When sober and the club environment is in full swing, then I'll go with a 6 if I feel the hotter girls won't deliver what I'm looking for.
The rule of thumb I use is, "Would I be embarrassed if I was seen with her in public?" As long as the answer is "No" I'm good.
I love a girl next door look kinda gal. I love my total hotties too, but it's something about seeing the type of girl you'd see shopping at the grocery store at the club too. You finally get to see what she looks like with little to no clothes on. I love my 8s and 9s and 10s, but those 5s and 6s and even a 4 can really capture my attention if she's wearing the right clothes and her body's bangin'.
@TherealBudBundy A girl can also be a 5 in the face but have a 9 body 😂
To me, as long as she has a great set of legs and looks good in a mini skirt and stripper heels, everything else is secondary UNLESS she has one of those faces that only a mother can love, and even then, I'd still be inclined to make it work
My preference is usually to try to build a human connection with the dancer that I like the most. That often means that I'm going for a ridiculously attractive woman, who's also really cool to talk to as well.
Yes...it can be a huge challenge. No...I'm not backing away from that challenge. No...I don't always succeed. Yes...it's totally worth it to me when I do succeed. Yes...some people like to say that certain things aren't possible. No...I'm not listening to them. 😊
@ClubFan81077 if your not pursuing extras, then this works out even better because the non extras dancers put more effort into making conversation
I have pretty high standards and at the age of seventy can still count the number of women I have had sex with on one hand. I have never paid for sex with a stripper. What they want would always be higher than what I would be willing to pay. I do not consider commercial sex immoral and, as a libertarian, would like to see prostitution decriminalized.
@docsavage what is your cutoff for too high to pay? The rates can be as low as $150, even less if you only want a handjob, and those rates arent far off from several lapdances
Went to bed with a 10 and woke up with a 2🫣😒. Beer goggles forever!🤣
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@ClubFan81077 Exactly where I got it from🤣
If I hit it off with a girl, looks are irrelevant regardless of what happens later. If some fat girl gets me off, why should I care what anyone else thinks?
I'll take action over looks any day of the week. Most of you would probably have pegged my ATF as a 6, but to me she was an 11. I've had sex with what I think most here would call 9 or 10, and also with some most of you wouldn't even look at. Note that for me, women who looked diseased or drugged out aren't even on the scale, so if that's your idea of a 1 or 2, it's not mine.
Possibly cliche, but it's the service and personality over the looks for me.
@georgmicrodong looking too skinny also qualifies as looking drugged out.
There’s a balance between service and looks- it depends what your going for and what services you require- if its just an average or even an ugly girl then theres no sense in even paying or doing anything
I wouldn't say no to Monica Lewinsky.
@shadowcat Speaking of today is youtube.com
Better looks dont correlate with lesser service- maybe in a strip club it can be true in that a better looking lady can sell non extras dances easier
But in the overall sex worker world, it seems the uglier ladies, almost always, provide worse service than the better looking ones. I believe this is because they have lower self esteem, are more worried about cheating on their boyfriend pimps and thus more hesitant to engage in anything considered cheating
Thankfully the looks vs action tradeoff doesn’t always apply. I have been pleasantly surprised to find that sometimes the hottest girls are the nastiest sluts. Not always, but more often than not. I never assume that “she’s too hot to blow me”.
@Iknowbetter in my opinion, in the sex work world, uglier girl is more likely to be a rob or provide poor service, and with a hot girl, even if she doesnt provide extras, more likely to admit to no extras available instead of robbing
And unfortunately the inverse is sometimes true too. Not attractive dancers can be robs or semi robs. And multiple clubs at Pompano have at least 1 of them
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