Dating a stripper in Raleigh NC

@H_man95 whats the club culture like.. and do you know how much money she brings in

@rickthehick I mean the club says it's very clean but I know from some insiders that you know when people aren't looking things happen over there. Before she was making like 8-10K a month now she's down to like 4 or 5K

@H_man95 8-10k is definitely extras money, unless her club is in an extreme tourist area, or unless shes regularly engaging in scams

Even in a non extras club it can be very easy to do a handjob over the pants or touch the pussy

@H_man95: "I just would love to know if she does extras lol"

So would the rest of us lol.

@sfrsox how would she rat him out for soliciting when hes the boyfriend? That doesnt make sense

Also she wouldnt be able to accuse him of trafficking unless he actually was trafficking her. And thats unlikely if shes American and working a club.. plus why would he be asking people if she provides extras if he was trafficking her..

@sfrsox - not sure how many DA’s would try to charge solicitation on a he said/she said situation in a club. Unless she recorded something or has text messages to prove her version it won’t happen. That solicitation law was put into place for trafficking and sting operations.

@NCParrothead he doesnt know what hes talking about. Posting a question online asking if your girlfriend does extras, doesnt count as solicitation. Even if this guy is lying and is asking the question because he is secretly a potential customer trying to figure out if this dancer provides extras. Solicitation laws dont criminalize any sort of indirect solicitation which includes discussion about paid dates, asking to be someones sugardaddy, offering to take care if someone in a relationship, offering to pay soneone to be your girlfriend, and asking people if your girl working a club provides extras

Folks I'm not asking for solicitation lol. I'm just curious if anyone has got a dance seen her etc. Just find it hot that's all

@NCParrothead also you cant accuse someone of trafficking just because you date them. Otherwise all these sex workers, numerous of whom are single moms and probably getting child support, would also just claim trafficking as a go to with their exes.

I mean you can accuse anyone of anything but an intentional false accusation is illegal

@H_man95 If you are into her doing extras, why wouldn't she tell you herself about doing them?

@ilbbaicnl she's a bit shy TBH about it and says she doesn't do it. I am just curious how she dances and how does she entertain tbh also if she can be eventually swayed with cash. Just very exciting for me lol

@Manuellabore clearly you're unfamiliar with cuckold. If I was dating a stripper I'd be curious as hell too. Where else would I ask about it? How is this not the perfect platform to inquire?

@WickedVice I don't see myself dating a stripper but if I wanted to know if a SO was having sex on the side I'd ask her. If I didn't trust her to be honest, I'd be done with her. I wouldn't be a creepy weirdo about it. If she doesn't want to tell him what she does, who are we to out her, and potentially expose her to harm? Besides, nobody knows if this is really just a creepy BF. Could be another dancer in the club looking to get her in trouble. Could be a club patron who has no business knowing what she does with other customers, who maybe doesn't have the balls to ask her directly what's on the menu. Also, the "July 2026" join date is highly relevant. Too many people parachute onto this site and start right off asking questions like this. While I wouldn't respond to a question like this under any circumstances, the poster could at least get some reviews under his belt sand build a little cred before diving right in with a BS inquiry like this.

@Manuellabore Club owners and managers arent retards. They know girls make shit up about each other to either earn favoritism from management or to try to get someone fired. No club ownership is going to take random online posts of a dancer claiming to have done something, seriously. Neither are any cops going to take it seriously since they, too, know people can make shit up.

Also the “club patron has no business knowing what she does with other customers” isnt actually a thing. Thats something PL’s post online to stroke their egos. There are no dancers that only provide extras to 10% of their customers.

The only thing in your post that’s actually a valid argument is that the dancer may be at risk of harm if her boyfriend finds out she does extras. But once again- the boyfriend would be aware people can make shit up, and, it would be extremely easy for a dancer to weasel out of the situation by concocting a story involving a crazy or jealous coworker or client.

At the end of the day its common sense that people can make things up, especially anonymously on the internet, and even more commonly in an illicit or semi legal industry like strip clubs or sex work, where everyone is well aware that nobody is going to pursue defamation charges for false statements made about someone.

Also someon who is familiar with this club and area would have more info as far as if its a common extras club, if management knows extras happen etc.

@skibum609 how do you know lol? Yes imma be a cuck lol

@skibum609 stalking means trying to find out someone’s whereabouts, address, following them around, harassing them etc.

Inquiring on whether they offer extras or not, might be nosy but doesnt meet the definition of stalking.

@rickthelion lol you folks never really dated someone and it shows. Like what is this stalker bullshit? Dm me I can literally show you that I'm dating her. Lol

@H_man95 ape, what you need to realize is that your whole story is fishy. Too implausible to even be funny.

Imma ricksplain this because it amuses me to do so. If you were really a demented pervert that gets off on dating an extras stripper you could just ask her whether she does extras. Y’know…you could just tell her you wanna jack off to stories of her sucking geezer dick for the filthy lucre.

But hey…if you want to prove that you’re dating said stripper I’m going to tell you how to do so: take a photo of her bare ass with “I ❤️ Lions” written on it in Sharpie and the Sharpie inserted in her butthole. Every demented pervert on this site will totally believe that you’re dating any girl willing to take a butthole sharpie pic for you. ROAR!!!