An Excellent and yet Attainable SC Experience

My best experiences these days are when something new happens ITC. That's a very rare thing, but I had something like that just the other day. Basically I had a HASE, except not with a stripper. Let's call it a Hot Ass Staff Experience.

But on a routine visit, an excellent experience is the girl I'm there to see is waiting by the door or is at my side right after I find a place to sit. We're both in a good mood and the vibe is there immediately. The spot we want in VIP is open when we're looking, no one is around who isn't cool with what's about to happen, and we go at it. Full speed, full volume. Whenever it's over we relax, clean up, then act like nothing happened on our way back out to the floor. Then maybe before I leave I spot a prospect and kick the tires before I leave.

Maybe I'm in the wrong thread, but good OTC is better than anything that can happen in a club. OTC with an attractive sex worker, the closer to true simulated fuckbuddy the better. But, it's tricky. The more regular a customer you are, the more motivated they are. But, human nature being what it is, entitlement and ego mess up what starts as a mutual good thing. They start to feel like it should be steady money for them, but whatever they're in the mood for for you. They often don't want to accept that the sexual aspect is what it's primarily about, as much as you may enjoy their company. I think many women think it's just healthy self-esteem or something, to aspire to a bridal magazine reality. Six figures, six pack abs, six foot. A man who will dole out $ till it breaks him, regardless of how much tease he gets rather than actual sexual satisfaction. Because of this, I don't feel like it's a good approach, to be thinking in terms of a peak experience. Enjoy it in the moment, don't build up hopes of it getting better, or even staying as good in the future.

'📱'📱'📱' ✓ i like : | seeing the full nude girls on stage being creative & fun with their body looking directly at me, that shows they like me, their work & is above the average dancer! I like sittin' &' chillin' @ the club with the sc atmosphere, talkin' with the strippers, being able to go outside & smoke! Mi current club is byob, wish they sold food but they sell drinks, maybe otc someday - - - ' _😛

This is an intriguing discussion. For me, it's a totally "it depends" sort of answer. I totally love @wallanon 's comment where you have made the effort to set up an ITC meeting ahead of time with a dancer and everything works to perfection. I have also had HAStaffEs where I had great and fully unexpected fun with servers when the dancers were less than my cup of tea and THAT was excellent. It's also nice to go into a new place (which I try to do as much as I can) with no high expectations for anything and have an enjoyable experience. In my mind, all are excellent (and striving for these experiences is what keeps bringing me back).

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I thought maybe a dancers perspective might make the conversation a little bit more fun. As a dancer it's a tricky walk, taking a good customer from inside to out. If you offer it too often, then you don't have enough good regulars seeing you when you are at work. Once you see a client outside of the club, they often want to spend less money and have much more of your time. The risk is often that it can feel much closer to a "real" connection, then just a transaction , which is what the truth of it is. Personally, the best customers I have had over the years to are the ones I've NEVER taken OTC. I think part of the attraction is the mystery, the unattainable woman, the imaginary story you create between the two of you. If that part is gone, often too, much of the attraction disappears. Just my two cent worth... Skittles