Have you ever had a monger / hobby experience that was your pinnacle and you feel like you’re always trying to get close to that again, but can’t?
Personally I had an amazing experience about 15 years ago with a totally wild Playboy model / dancer who was the closest thing physically to a 10 I’ve ever been with. She worshipped my Johnson (a 10! I couldn’t believe it!) and basically hit all my sexual preferences. I don’t think I’ll ever have as good as an experience as that again, but in a way the memory of that keeps me in the hobby.
This is why I return and end up discouraged 90% of the time. If I leave the hobby for some time and visit, it becomes a healthy reminder of the pinnacle. I’ve found to tell the dancer of your dreams that you’re addicted to her so she knows to keep you in the hook for more, as a time saver for repeat visits. Better to waste money on one girl than to spend on several looking for that dragon.