Visited My First Club - Glad I Did, But Felt I Rushed It

Dec 17, 2025, 11:28 PM

Well today I did it. After going back and forth in my head if I should or shouldn't for the last few weeks, I finally visited my first SC.

I honestly wish I hadn't waited so long to do so. I was only there for a short period of time, but I loved it ... okay mostly, my 2nd dance was bad and I wish I could have had that money back (she made me pay up front).

That said, I gotta ask. How do you all stretch out your money and experience. I mean I got there, had my first dance maybe 10-15 mins in (the women literally got my attention walking into the club), then her friend wanted a turn (the one I felt ripped off). Then watched a bit of one stage, got a dance from her and my funds were up. In maybe an hour's time.

Like is it okay to just sit and watch (say from a distance)? I did have a bit of a chat with the ladies, but I felt since I was a greenhorn to it all, it wouldn't have been the same as a regular (I saw one guy with 2 women, that they were fine just chatting him up). I get they want to make money with dances, but I also felt it was rude to occupy their time just chatting (and one you could tell lost interest).

What the balance here?

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mech2313 hours ago

Did you chat with each girl to see what they offered. To make your money last. Scope out all the talent 1st before deciding. Get acclimated to the club since there is going to be various types of girls working & trying to get your attention since they're looking to make money 1st of all especially since it's your a newbie. Spend your money wisely and does get costly. Like taking a little kid to a candy store, lots of choices and variety.

PAWG_Patrol13 hours ago

You're in control. Don't feel pressured. It's ok to observe without tipping unless you're sitting directly at the stage. Only ROBs demand tips for conversation. Never fall for the "my friend wants a dance too" bit. Just give money to dancers you're interested in. Your money = their attention.

PhantomGeek12 hours ago

And there's always, "Thanks, but I just got here, and I'd sorta like to get settled in. Maybe later, if that's okay?"

ilbbaicnl12 hours ago

You can't afford at least a couple bucks for the dancers you like when you're watching the stage show?

From9789 hours ago

I've been doing this for 30 years, and my average with new dancers is no better than yours. Think of it as buying information. On this trip you learned that if she asks to be paid in advance, there's a reason.

N1ghtStrike21 minutes ago

Thank you all for the info. As for the one dancer, we were in the private dance area when she asked for the money up front. I feel though at that point you have committed. Is this something I could have just left saying "nevermind", or should I have asked about it first?

(Also, while not this day, I have read reviews this place has a $10 fee to enter said area, so there's that to factor in ... though they may only do it when it's busy)