Visited My First Club - Glad I Did, But Felt I Rushed It

Did you chat with each girl to see what they offered. To make your money last. Scope out all the talent 1st before deciding. Get acclimated to the club since there is going to be various types of girls working & trying to get your attention since they're looking to make money 1st of all especially since it's your a newbie. Spend your money wisely and does get costly. Like taking a little kid to a candy store, lots of choices and variety.

You're in control. Don't feel pressured. It's ok to observe without tipping unless you're sitting directly at the stage. Only ROBs demand tips for conversation. Never fall for the "my friend wants a dance too" bit. Just give money to dancers you're interested in. Your money = their attention.

And there's always, "Thanks, but I just got here, and I'd sorta like to get settled in. Maybe later, if that's okay?"

You can't afford at least a couple bucks for the dancers you like when you're watching the stage show?

I've been doing this for 30 years, and my average with new dancers is no better than yours. Think of it as buying information. On this trip you learned that if she asks to be paid in advance, there's a reason.

Thank you all for the info. As for the one dancer, we were in the private dance area when she asked for the money up front. I feel though at that point you have committed. Is this something I could have just left saying "nevermind", or should I have asked about it first?

(Also, while not this day, I have read reviews this place has a $10 fee to enter said area, so there's that to factor in ... though they may only do it when it's busy)

You can feel slighted by a dancer who goes to the couch room with several other customers before getting around to you. But, keep in mind, the ones who are the quickest to approach you are often the ones who are in the discard pile of all the club regulars.

Isn't "The fun lasts as long as your money does" pretty much the city slogan of Denver?

It's funny you say that, because when I entered one was sitting in a chair and asked where I was going after I entered (I was using the bathroom). When I came back and talked to her, she was very handsy we'll say (and some other stuff).

The thing was, her dance was amazing, and she almost was helpful with it being my first time.

That's what threw me off a little, because I have read reviews about the ones that say summon you are usually the ones to avoid. (Unless it was to help her friend, but the work she did for that was bloody impressive).

As for the slogan, no clue, but I wouldn't be surprised with this state when I read about reviews of different things like SC and other ventures. And how everything is overpriced and lower quality

There is no perfect system for budgeting unless you have a pre-arranged agreement with a dancer. I have been in clubs where I spent over 3 hours and walked out with the bulk of my money still in my pocket. Other times the timing and girls aligned and I’d have shot my wad (figuratively and literally) in about an hour. My only advice is leave the plastic at home and the vibe is not there don’t spend just to spend- save the money for next visit.

The plastic is one I made sure to note. One of them was like "there's an ATM right there", and I played it off. Since I have read the ATM withdraw fees alone can be crazy

On my first strip club visit the first girl I approached on stage was both friendly and cute. The lap dances we ended up doing were enjoyable. I always thought if I'd had a bad first experience I might never have gone to a strip club again since I went in unsure I wanted to be there. Instead, this turned into a major hobby.

docsavage I hear you. 2 of the dancers I had, I would love to be regulars for. However, my bank account won't allow it (I gotta make sure I keep the hobby affordable)