I am in my late 60's and white, I still enjoy visiting clubs on occasion. I have been told that aa dancers shy away from old white guys. Is this true or do they just care about the color green.
I am in my late 60's and white, I still enjoy visiting clubs on occasion. I have been told that aa dancers shy away from old white guys. Is this true or do they just care about the color green.
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last commentI'm also in my late '60s, and that's never been my experience. Some of my best ITC and OTC memories have been made with young black girls. In fact, I think they're usually friendlier, prettier, and often friskier, than other nationalities.
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It has been more my experience that the aa dancers are often more aggressive than average rather than shy. After that aggressiveness does not work sometimes they may stop approaching White guys so if you are interested you may need to make the first approach. I like the small slender type of stripper so I will do lap dances with any girl like that regardless of race.
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I'm 83 and black girls are the only ones that I have done VIPs with this year. Got nothing against white girls. They are just in short supply in Atlanta.
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Well, around here, the AA girls don't avoid old white guys. I am approached by them all the time when I'm in a club. And like others, some of my best ITC/OTC things have been with AA girls. If it weren't for my ATF, a particular AA dancer would have been my ATF. She was very, very kind to me when my ATF was killed.
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Same as above. I'm an old white guy and prefer slender, athletic women, regardless of ethnicity. I've have very good experiences with AA dancers, who are often more willing to provide high mileage dances or extras than many other ethnicities. It may be a cultural thing or an economic necessity thing.... not sure.
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Well, I'm not an old white guy .. wait a sec who are we kidding, yes I am. I have certainly been approached by AA dancers in multiple clubs, sometimes before dancers of other ethnicities have even come up to talk. Not gonna lie, I suspect AA dancers might be thinking that white dudes might have a fantasy about AA women and they want to see if it makes us an easy sell? (in areas where the population is more white at least). I don't think my LD experiences with them, however, have been better than non-AA dancers. I happen to think older dancers (milfs) often give great mileage.
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They may be more likely to assume you would not be interested. If my faulty memory can be trusted, seems like it's more common that I have to be the one to role up with black dancers.
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One favorite black dance told me that some younger black dancers do avoid white men because they do not know how to talk to them.
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Old white guys are the favorite demographic of all dancers, regardless of ethnicity. Some AA dancers might assume that old white guys aren’t interested in them. I’ve had many approach me by saying “do you like black girls?”
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If you're fit, attractive, and don't drink of BO, then I'm 100% colorblind and glad for the company. If you're out-of-shape, have the complexion of a bag of mulch or a rat's nest for hair, or don't know which end of a toothbrush gets the toothpaste, then I am 100% colorblind and will move you along post-haste.
BTW, that line about not knowing how to talk to old white guys sounds like strippershit. The stripclub handshake and "my name is..." are universal .
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^ I’m guessing some are self conscious of their poor grammar when talking to people who with good grammar
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I am white, in my early 70s, and have always had AA dancers approach me. I'm well-groomed, use deodorant, don't have stinky breath, and dress appropriately for whatever club I'm in. For the sake of this discussion, MrT5, I will assume that you do, too.
Others, above, have suggested you might need to proactively approach AA dancers, and I agree. Find an AA girl to take back for a lap dance, even if she's not the one you'd be most interested in. Believe me, if other AA dancers in the club see that you are getting dances from even one of them, most of the rest will come and talk to you.
The tagline on my TUSCL profile says I strongly prefer women of color. Every color. Which is true, but -- for a number of reasons -- I like black women best of all. I think @Rod84 explained that pretty well.
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Well i'm not as old as many of you guys but i wasn't born yesterday either but i am a white dude and i've often been approached by black dancers and have often had great times with many of them when they fit my physical requirements in and out of the clubs.
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The gospel according to DOUGSTER or is it icey icee icee txtityfag davids phatboi mypoorlifechoices or half a dozen alias troll names i don't recall atm but hey, they're all #DOUGSTER! lulz
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In my late 50’s and have never noticed AA dancers being hesitant to approach me. Some of highest mileage dances I have gotten were from the AA girls.
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I would imagine older white guys have more disposable cash to pay for strippers plus they are probably not getting as much "attention" at home as they use to for whatever reason. That was my case.
Dress decent, don't smell like a trashcan and groom up for the occasion. Business casual is a good choice at non-dive strip clubs.
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All generalizations are wrong, including this one. In my experience, AA dancers are even less predictable than average. (Brazilians are the most like one another; they understand the value of brand identity.). Until you talk to her, you don't really know the background of a black dancer. She might be Cape Verdian, Puerto Rican, other Latina, or from pretty much the same background as you.
It's really kind of immaterial who approaches whom. You can always start the conversation with some surefire opening line. I find "Hi" generally is sufficient. If you need more, try "I don't think I've seen you here before," followed by "If I had, I'd remember it."
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I’m surprised OP has this type of questions as a patron in his late sixties and been around clubs of some kind at some point.
You have enough life experience to know the answer to your query.
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I'm 59 and I've not had this issue. I went to mostly mixed clubs in Florida so maybe those were the kinda places where the black girls were cool with white men. I went to a black club in ATL nobody gave a fuck that I was white including the strippers. All 8 SB's I've ever had were black but that's a different kind of pro.
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I love the Whitney Houston type of black girls...🤪
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I am only 52, so I am younger than some of you here, but I've never had problems with AA girls approaching me. At the club I go to most nowadays, compared to white girls and all the other ethnic groups they have, they approach me far more than everyone else does. But it is also possible the AA girls are not what the average guy there is looking for. And they can't just sit there or hide in the dressing room.
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Dayshift at some clubs in Philly is literally old white guys and AA dancers….
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Black women love white men. Trust me. The fat black girls can be overly aggressive because they are frequently turned down. The skinny black women hit the spot. A friend of mine is a pit boss at a casino in Las Vegas. He is in his mid sixties and has a beautiful black wife who is just barely over half his age. She just gave him his first child two years ago.
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There is no one rule, some avoid white guys thinking they are racist or wont like them, some will approach whitr guys… like most dancers they do assume white guys have more money than black and latino guys
There might be some black chicas with nice physiques but i havent ever seen one as pretty as some of the white and latina girls
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They are the most likely to be pimped, be robs, restrictive service etc
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If black girls don't like old white guys, who do they prefer? Everyone likes old white guys because we are more likely to have money, not be insane, and not be a cop.
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Not in my experience. I'm 69. Historically many of my atfs have been AA.
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@pussylicker2 for the most part they do think old guys have money and wont be violent… but the cop thing i think they also think theyre most likely to be cops. And that makes some of them wary
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As usual DOUGSTER posting as icie with a swipe at older white guys, just like he has with most of his other dozen or so troll accounts.
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@icey countless stripper forums also discuss the fact old white guys are considered the richest and safest clients They even advise targeting them for good customers They dont have the cheap stereotype indians and asians can have
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^ Follow your own advice icieDOUGSTER! lulz 😂🤡💩
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Putting aside that the proposition put forth by OP defies common sense and commitment n experience, it’s worth mentioning that a lot of AA escorts screen out AAmen, especially if under 35 or 40.
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AA, Latina, Caucasian....if you have the money, they will give up the honey.
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Spinners are what I seek and everything else is irrelevant. 2 of 5 regular dancers of mine are aa, simply because they are spinners with pretty faces.
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