OTC dates with married dancers

It’s just business for her.

Interesting situation. Is the husband okay with it? If so is he a freak or just a loser who can't support his woman so badly she has to do that? Lol

Yeah. Found out on our third OTC date when she showed up with a diamond studded ring on her left hang when we met at the hotel bar. We'd been going at it ITC for 2-1/2 years before that. Knew he was in her life but assumed it was a immigration-related marriage followed by a quicky divorce, because they didn't live together. Didn't care, Didn't change anything. Assumed she put on the ring to look more respectable when she met up with a guy nearly twice her age in a nice place

Since most of us mongers are married, it stands to reason that some of the dancers we hook up with (either itc or otc) are married too. For me, banging dancers is strictly business. An amazingly enjoyable business arrangement, but still business. Our respective relationship status is not relevant.

If its a foreign latina its pretty much totally irrelevant. A lot of these chicks relationship with the guy they married is just as transactional as with any client. They will even ask clients to marry them or even offer thousands to clients to marry them so they can get papers etc. and even if they are married they will still do all the GFE stuff, possibly even bare.

But if its an american chica, including an american latina, thats a totally different situation. Those ladies are still transactional but very few rich guys will marry someone in that line of work. An american girl who is married, i would not get into any p4p with i would assume she will have a whole bunch of rules and it will be extremely mechanical.

As others have said, it’s just business.

Unsurprisingly, I’ve found married dancers want the same discretion from guys that married guys expect from dancers. Which makes for a less dramatic relationship if you’re seeing her for more than a one time thing. Which I can fully appreciate.

I’ve not found any correlation between marital status and the quality of P4P.

Just further proof that in the same transaction, neither side holds the moral high ground.

The MILF I've been seeing off and on for the last few years is married. She doesn't charge me when we meet OTC, because she says she can weather a cheating scandal, but not being called a whore. She only does lap dances for me ITC, and she accepts my money then. I gather that she and her husband are not going to be married much longer, for reasons having nothing to do with me.

My ATF was married, and we'd get together even after she got married. She apparently told him that I was part of her life and he could either live with it, or live without her. I've met him, he's a nice guy and understood the dynamic.

"I'll be single soon" is up there with "the check is in the mail".

One married dancer I see has a pretty open relationship. She told me this right away. Initially she said he didn't want to know too much because it would upset him. After a few times she said he would freak out if he knew she was meeting a black guy.

I occasionally see someone OTC and if I had to guess, I’d say she is married, or has a significant other. She is very particular about keeping her work and personal lives separate, and that works for both of us.

There used to be one girl I knew was married I did OTC with. It was always done either at her hotel room or mine. It was always just a business transaction for her. Also, he was never physically around. It was also quite possible there was an understanding between them. It was also quite possible he was gay or bi and was using the marriage to cover for that, based off stuff she said about him.

I can think of 2 cases where the husband had medical problems that made it impossible for them to have intercourse or for him to even do much work. One of the husbands has died recently.

Hopefully the husband is OK with OTC with Eskimos.

Most are ok with it.

It's business. Part of the job. Hubby knew what he signed up for.