What did you discover about yourself after you got your first lap dance?

I discovered that I needed to go back when I had more money lol.

I was getting a dance at a bachelor party in Tampa. TV and movies made me think you couldn't ever touch a dancer. Strip clubs seemed pointless. Then she grabbed my hands and put them on her tits. I thought "holy shit! That's allowed?!?" and have been a PL ever since 😂

That I liked big (but not obese) butts and C+ boobs grinding into me, and usually means AA/Latina women. It was magical. That was always my "type" but that cemented it.

"Spinners" whose ribs you can see through their chests? Or butts that look like a 12 year old boy's, devoid of feminine curves? Gross.

I expected to feel gross and dirty after going to one and having a lapper… but… I was grinning ear to ear for days after my first experience… hooked! It hasn’t really been diminishing returns either.. I still love em! Probably helps that I go once a month or so and not multiple times per week

That I have an ego. I enjoyed it but cant het off on it knowing its just a service I'm buying. Thats what inspired me to seduce strippers. Its an ego boost.

My first was sometime in the 80's. I discovered that I could LDK.

What wallanon said.
And that tits are wonderful, and so variable, and virtually all dancers love my slow hands 😋

I didn’t discover anything about my self that I didn’t already know, but reading the comments makes me realize how many of you think the strip club is more than just a fun diversion from real life.

Actually l learned that I couldn't - not - do this (indulge in the occasion LD). And I couldn't keep it to myself, which meant I had to come clean with my wife.

And I learned she's more trusting / tolerant me than I knew.

That a handful is all that I require in a woman that is dancing in my lap!

3 things

1. Girls with accents are a turn on for me
2. A pair of tits (C cup or bigger) smothered in my face can calm me down when I need it.
3. Best not to do this daily. This routine is to be done once in a while by keeping a budget.

Can't remember it. It was after the first time I saw an escort. Can't remember that either.

I found out I really like LOTS of HOT girls!

and glad to be single!

I learned I needed a better job if I'm to continue partaking in this hobby.

I second what Wallanon said. I would also say that I liked more types of girls than I had previously admitted to.

I was spoiled. My friends set me up and I learned a lapdance could be more than a dance. When I tried to repeat the experience I learned I had an expensive habit I couldn’t afford at that time of my life.

I don’t remember my first LD, but clearly remember my first LDK moment. It was with a busty blonde daytime girl at Bourbon Street Phoenix that always danced on stage to Stevie Ray Vaughan. This was many years ago before this club had its current VIP setup. We were in a back corner doing regular LDs. She had her back pressed up against my boner, while my hands crept under her arms from behind to stroke some incredible side boob. She kept pressing and I kept stroking until I felt that familiar throbbing go over the edge and I exploded in my pants. This was early in my SC career, before I could even spell OTC, and was incredibly exciting. That orgasm set me on the path of many years of pleasure seeking from strippers, with hundreds more LDK experiences, and a fair amount of OTC later on. LDK in the club is rare for me now, and not a goal, but I’ve never forgotten how good that first time felt!

well said azdd.

I learned about “extra” strip clubs.. and that I like them very much lol. Shout out to Follies iykyk, RIP, broke my heart when they closed.