I like how I can just say whatever the fuck I want in a strip club

Strip clubs are anti-pc in the sense that women can be viewed primarily in terms of being sex objects. There have been women dancing for the entertainment of men throughout most of history.

I do not consider them to be places, though, where it is OK to be rude to women. They are involved in a business transaction and, me being a customer, they are polite to me. I try to treat them the same way.

Watch what you say and to whom or you could wind up as a source for a 2AMer report.

Yeah, I avoid being rude, but I do enjoy discussing topics that are frowned on at the family picnics. Or by significant others. Personal relationships aren't perfect. Many times you can be more honest with total strangers you don't expect to see again.

One example: Once a gorgeous dancer sat down with me, which led me to buying her a drink. She told the waitress she wanted a "camel toe". Now the waitress discretely glanced down at herself to see if my dancer was giving her a hint. She wasn't. It was just a joke. The waitress kind of knew the dancer, so she didn't get all upset. I was fun. I never had something like that happen on date. I don't remember what kind of drink the waitress brought her in the end. Maybe it had a hair in it.

One time at CCR near DC a bunch of dancers and custies got into a big Israel/Palestine debate. Talk about a vibe killer lol.

I like to keep the discussion light: weed, sex, and travel.

The reduced filter from "real life" will always be a huge part of the club experience to me. Everyone jokes about it being budget therapy but they both really do connect back to a need to break free of norms of what you can say/do.

Except instead of unpacking your sexual repression and trying to move on from it (maybe impossible), you just get to soothe it with saying what you've always wanted to say and getting an LDK. Not a bad deal for often a similar price tag.

If a guy is consistently making dancers uncomfortable though, maybe it's time to use that cash to talk to someone who's licensed to listen to your bullshit and process it. Or just get your whole life on track like Puddy and never cope again.

a strip club environment is usually pretty fun for me. Having women approach or at least open to approach is a game changer for an old fart like me.

pretty difficult for me in civilian life to approach the kind of girls I like. and definitely they ain't usually approaching me.

I've seen a few guys that have said anything they want, taking flying lessons in the parking lot, the bouncers earn bonus money as flight instructors.

I generally ask the dancer about any dislikes she may have during a lap dance. Her response opens the door to further discussion and indicates how comfortable she is talking about this stuff. Thus, I can avoid being rude.

I always say, there's more honesty in a strip club than anywhere in the outside world.

You can't say whatever the fuck you want in a strip club. There's limits on speech everywhere, including the club. There's no quicker way to get escorted out of a club than, for example: threatening a stripper or staff member, or talking about sexual violence or child abuse.

Everywhere has it's own speech standards.

There are types of speech that would be welcome in a National Park that wouldn't be welcome in the club. Like for example: religious evangelism. IF you go to the club to evangelize to strippers to get them to repent and join your church, you are not going to last long in the club before the boot hits your ass.

And even though you Can say things like "Hey can you suck my dick? Do mind if I titty fuck you? How much for bareback?" in the club and not kicked out, doesn't mean the dancer is going to appreciate the question. Or respect you for asking it. I mean, in some contexts those are appropriate questions, in others, you'll look like a complete asshole for asking.

In any case appropriate speech isn't as simple as "PC and not PC". It's about having empathy for others above all.

I enjoy the fact I can just openly talk about sex and check out women openly.

You think you're having fun with it? I was once on an OTC with a stripper, and after I had given her a quite adequate dicking and we were all cleaned up, she decided she wanted to add onto the schedule tomorrow and work the club.

So she tells me not to say anything, and then calls her boss and asks to add on. I can see her little face contorting into that angry kitten expression that told me whatever he was saying, she wasn't happy with it. "Just add me on". pause to listen "I can't work just because all those bitches** are on?!?!" then he says something , she says bye, hangs up.

The ** is because I honestly can't say whether she said bitches or cunts. She might have dropped the c bomb.

Anyway she stops for a second, gets over it, looks at me and says "I love that I can call everyone bitches** to my boss. Anyway they won't let me add on because there's too many bitches***"

** or cunts, not sure which *** or cunts