She’s bisexual and wants to go with me to the Boardroom Cabaret holiday party this Thursday.
I’ve never been with a partner. What is the etiquette? Should I just be prepared to pay double for everything? Are we gonna be ignored? She’s quite cute and friendly so I’m hoping to watch her get grinded on in the LD area and maybe Champagne too if I’m feeling really festive.
Oofff - has she ever been to a strip club before in a situation like this. Sometimes it works great, other times it’s a disaster especially if the civie is intimidated because she feels the strippers look better than her.
Thanks all. Shes been before, but never with a partner/FWB either. She’s excited but not obnoxious about it. I definitely didn’t talk her into anything that’s for sure :)
I always had a great time in strip clubs with my wife, but I married well.
My ATF's strategy with couples was to pay little to no attention to the guy, and shower the girl with everything she had. The guy's only purpose was to pay for the girl's fun. She said it worked the vast majority of time, even with the girls who didn't really want to be there and were pressured to go.
Most of the other dancers didn't want to deal with couples for precisely the reasons big butt liker stated; they didn't want the drama.
If she's been before and knows how to behave herself, that's a huge win. Taking a first timer female can sometimes be a disaster.
As far as costs, I don't know about the club you mention specifically but in general I would expect to pay 2x for each dance if you guys go in there together. Rooms are a little different, the club will often charge 2x but not always. The girls tend to charge more than for a solo, but not 2x. One option might be to get a bottle and a section, and just toss ones around. I'm generally not a fan of that approach, but with mixed company or groups it can be effective.
Bring drugs. Strippers like that. There was a couple from out of town at Follies known as the cocaine couple. They always had 3-5 good looking dancers sitting at their table.
@gmd the bb is strategically ambiguous, big butts, big boobs, bad bitches, beautiful babes.
The other complaint I've heard from strippers about female PLs is they expect strippers to have looser boundaries with female customers than male ones.
She has been to clubs before, so ask her about her experiences. What she liked, didn't like and what she expects at the holiday party with you. That way boundaries and expectations (both hers and yours) can be set and not left to chance. And you can avoid a potential disaster.
From what I see strippers do have looser boundaries with female customers than male.
@skibum609
You wrote, and I quote:
“I always had a great time in strip clubs with my wife, but I married well.”
Pics and Vids of the weeding and the strip club visits or it didn’t happen.
:D
Good Times, Good Times.
^^^ ilbbaicnl said, "Dancers have bad stories about dancing for couples where the female was talked into coming, is miserable, and wants to spread the misery around."
In my experience, the best way to avoid this is to have your FWB -- alone, without you -- approach any dancer she's interested in and ask about dances. If she's inexperienced, she may need a little coaching from you ahead of time.
Good luck, and please come back and report about your visit.
Gents. Thanks for the sage advice. The night was…fine. I think the critical mistake was going for the Christmas party. It was fucking mobbed, like I’ve never seen the place so crowded. Girls were disappearing for long stretches of time. Sat at the stage, was very generous with tipping (both of us) and had some cute flirty interactions but really nothing more. It was funny tho…the AA dancers wanted NOTHING to do with us. Not sure if that’s a past experience thing, or a religious/conservative thing or what. But it was definitely a pattern. She wants to go back when it’s not so busy.
Of course, I took her home and fucked her living brains out while I made her tell me which dancers she liked best and what she wanted to do to them. 🔥
The one time I did it, I didn't get charged double, but I was repeat customer with the one dancer we did a couple dance with. My "date" was a fav from another club, and she want to go up to the stage and tip singles mostly.
Dancers have bad stories about dancing for couples where the female was talked into coming, is miserable, and wants to spread the misery around. But, if your friend is visibly enjoying herself, I don't think the dancers will shy away.