what goes through a customers head when he does this...?

also i've never gotten posted on this website after 2 1/2 years working there which is crazy to me but also i'm glad bc it's kind embarrassing...especially because girls will rat you out to everyone

I am happy just buying a young lady a drink. I am just a happy person.

His hormones have taken over his little dirt road brain. I won't do anything without asking first what the rules she has. Last thing I need is a bouncer like Tyrus stepping in.

I guess it's OK that you're fine with it, but I can't imagine not asking before doing something like that. It's weird to me.

that's crazy you guys are saying this because they literally never ask lol. i guess fov isn't super common for my club so they assume im down for whatever since i don't have a negative reaction to them touching me to begin with

but also there's girls that do way more extras than me (bj hj) and i highlyyyy doubt they're allowing that...i just can't imagine any girl being okay with that. except me at least

Easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission
😁

Some guys like when a stripper spits in her hand before a handy... so maybe just returning the favor? Lmao

I don't really think about what's happening in another customers head, but lubricating the fingers can reduce friction. If it's a dancer I haven't been with before, anything involving body fluids for me is almost always an ask first. But sometimes things get hot and heavy fast and once I'm unzipped and in a dancer's hand, mouth, or whatever it's game on.

Some guys watch too much porn and think its real life.

@skibum lol to be honestttt

@pawg i guess you could say sometimes you just need a helping hand

I can't speak for the other perverts, but if the dancer is dry I would say needs some liquid help !!! I do always ask first, even with my regular dancers. DM me where you work & I will try to drop in to get review information, if you like !!!

You shouldnt let them do it. At least offer them wipes or jand sanitizer before letting them finger you

I've been dumb but not that dumb.

Most of the clubs I've frequented only had basic (saliva free) 2-way touching. I'm OK with that, as a switched from escorts to strippers when my plumbing became highly unreliable.

The first time a dancer held her nipple in front of my mouth, it didn't occur to me it was just a tease. She politely told me not cool, and I learned my lesson, never did that again when it wasn't permitted. But I soon learned that most dancers who do the adult breastfeeding simulation are nonetheless not cool with kissing. Another hint that the saliva rules are complicated, so touching with licked finger was a likely baddie.

On one of my early visits to an fully nude club, the dancer got dripping wet. Since a common female pet peeve with guys is we don't care if they finished, I assumed I should attend to her no-additional-lube-needed clit with my finger. She did a quick turn around to put an end to that, but didn't seem that angry, hopefully recognized the good intention.

An OTC fav came regularly from nipple kissing and light biting, back massage with a lot of pressure, and grinding on my thigh. But, sometimes, the earth was moved by fingering of her (well self-lubed) clit.

Another OTC fav would come most times I saw her. We'd start with light, dry clit rubbing, till she said it was time for the KY. It would take her 20 or more minutes to cum, which made me think the sensation was lower quality. Her clit was smaller which makes it more difficult. She always passed on my standing offer to use my tongue. She was fine with any amount of faux breastfeeding, even though her boobs made me drool excessively. But she limited kissing to light pecks.

That's pretty much my life story as far as getting drool on strippers.

Move your fingers closer to that area, then if she doesn't put you away, ask.
Would you want someone else's saliva on you unannounced?

I dont try to grope dancers. Im fine with air dances. But usually they move my hands where they want them.

Huh. I guess it’s just me. I read the vibe, but do this all the time. As the OP said, it feels good to her and that’s what I’m trying for. Chances are if my dancer isn’t ok with it, she’s put the brakes on long before we get to that point.

@kallara

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

First of all; Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.

:D

I am glad you “like your job”, however what you said you are allowing to happen is very risky behavior health wise.

I believe women by nature are more selective about their sexual activities.

In any case if you believe and I quote: “100% prefer this over sex” that is your unique experience and you are lucky to enjoy it.

Let’s be careful out there.

Since I don't have a vag, not sure this will work, but here's an idea. Put unscented lube into some unlabeled container and come up with an imaginary coochie care product you can claim it is to club management. Apply as needed to stay slippery down there your whole shift. Customers will be turned on that you're so hot for them, and you won't have to deal with their mouth drippings. Win win.

honestly i don't have a problem with it i mean it's kinda gross yeahh but also it turns me on so i don't really care until after the fact. so far i haven't had any issues and of course if a guy is just blatantly unhygienic i wont dance for him to begin with. also keep in mind its not like a bunch of guys are doing this to me it just happens every once and i while not that it makes much of a difference anywayssss

it doesn't make a difference bc they're still touching me obviously but i don't let any guys finger me because it's just uncomfortable and unenjoyable for me period

the saliva is a handy Iube.

A lot of PLs seem to feel like, if a stripper won't do what they want, it's like they got a Big Mac with no pickles. But it's just not a standardized service. The only real rules are don't go back on what you promise, and don't expect anything unless it was agreed to.

Why do PLs feel the need to treat strippers as if they were somehow different than other women? Do what you do. If she permits it and/or likes it, keep doing. If not, move along.

If she doesnt allow FOV, doesnt want to cum with clients, shes boyfriend pimped.

We are different than other men. Contrary to popular belief here, the number of men who pay for sex is minimal. Even guys I go strip clubbing with on my golf trip would never consider it as something they'd do at home. My fellow swingers think Im a moron for going. A lot of people in this world hve better things to spend their money on.

@TCabot your mom will make a meal for you because she loves you. Does that mean you can rub your spit on restaurant owners, because they are exploiting your natural urge to have a meal?

People often are too selfish to care they are shitting on somebody, or they get a sick power trip out of shitting on somebody. And they come up with idiotic justifications for their shittiness. People often work at jobs where they get shit on for a higher rate of income. It doesn't mean they belong to some special category of people that deserve to get shit on.

I have a phobia about licking my fingers(for real). I have no phobia about licking the clit and its environs but of course only with consent

@rick that's not really true i'm single myself but i feel like the most slutty girls that do the absolute most are either married or with a boyfriend. like they're so dirty with the customers i feel kinda bad for the guy. i think the girls that do it either simply enjoy it, then there's ones that'll do anything for extra money, and then there's girls that are disgusted by all men and that ranges from barely allowing a guy to touch them to doing extras even though they hate it

If you’re doing things right and the woman is into it (if she’s not, what’s the point?) that thang is supposed to be self-lubricating. If I’m allowed manual access, the hand takes its sweet time sidling up to the clit, so that, by the time there is direct contact, it should be moist. If it’s not, it’s time to move on to something else

With the rise of the Yrad wife movement here, which actually seems to be exploding in places like switzerland, where we are going back to theworking man and the stay at home wife servicing him, because in a lot of these new relationships, kids have been replaced by the gym and lunch out, while the Husband works. Glad I am old. Except for cars, air conditioning, and the fact you can pay any young person to pretty much do anything for cash, everything used to be better.

@TCabot yes it's true, that the better paid sex workers primarily rely on attributes they have by luck rather than effort. Does that mean it's OK to rub your spit on any Powerball winner? And, if you think sex work is easy, try it and get back to us.

Unless you work in a Thai brothel or something, sex work is sales work. You see the range from soft to hard (dishonest, manipulative) sell. Do you rub your spit on people who sell used cars or extended service plans? The strippers who are the most manipulative have a chip on their shoulder to match yours. They justify it by all the sketchy stuff men often do to get laid. Lots of guys are luvy duvy with side chicks they never really intend to be serious about. So I could see why strippers figure it should be understood as role play, not their fault if some PLs take it too seriously. Sex workers are side chicks who are paid to be non problematic side chicks.

Maybe because it’s what I’ve always done in my real relationships, and they always seemed to like it too? Sorry, I guess I should ask first. But if I did, what would you say? By the way, it your profile pic is really you, we’d all love to see more.

@manuella pov you have no idea what you're talking about when it comes to women's bodies...during different times of your cycle you can be completely dry or super wet. glad you have enough experience to know that

@iknow if you wanna see more come to my club lol