The staff in clubs usually get bashed but here's a shout out to one of the gentlemen who runs the rooms at Desires. Despite being an experienced weed smoker of 54 years, on occasion I do too much and end up too high to function in my normal outgoing manner. Sitting at Desires I am seeing lot of hot women and yet I am glued to my chair marveling at how stoned I am. Also a bit pissed off at myself because there are so few customers this is one of the rare times at Desires where you can have anyone from the cream of the crop because there are so few customers, and I am not even making eye contact. I see a dancer whom I have never once seen on stage and is with a customer no less than 100% of the time I have seen her before. Do I go ask her? Nope, too stoned so I sit. Now the bouncer on at this time is someone I know well, and I could ask him to point out someone fun, or hell, even go get her for me, but I don't. Too stoned. Then I see my first choice (walks right by me) go chat with him. They chat for a few minutes, look in my direction, they chat a few more minutes and then, she walks right over. A nice no pressure chat; a trip to the back; a good tip for the CR guy; a great CR (after negotiation) and I am still too high when I leave, but a whole lot happier. Without the bouncer dude helping out I'd have done nothing.
Has a bouncer ever helped you? Tell us how.....
Not a bouncer, but I have had a few bartenders help me out like that. The one that comes to mind was at the old Green Light Lounge in Louisville. I went to pay to take a hot blonde that I had never seen back to the VIP while the dancer went to the dressing room to freshen up after being on stage. The bartender flat out said "are you sure? You'll probably be disappointed since she doesn't do what you normally want" and suggested a different dancer. I went ahead and took the other dancer to vip before the girl I was planning to go with came back out and had a great time. The 1st girl was giving me a death stare when I came out of vip as I tipped the bartender and left. I never ended up going to vip with the 1st girl but I did see her there a few times after that and none of the customers who went to vip with her seemed very happy coming out so I guess I got lucky.