Escorting is supposedly much more profitable than stripping and many dancers do go into escorting or porn work eventually. Clubs can be used to gain clients and fame. However some don’t become escorts, nor offer otc. To some extent you could likely get anyone to agree to otc if you offered enough, theoretically even straight guys would do gay stuff for pay.
I have heard it could be due to legal concerns, privacy concerns, personal safety concerns, disease concerns, or related to relationship boundaries/restrictions where lapdances are fine but full on sex is cheating.


For some it is just a line they don't want to cross.
I suggest that you always interact with them as civilians anyway. Never act like they sell sex, like money buys them, or like they are motivated by money.
SJG