How many visits, how long of a time period did you spend with a dancer before starting to see her OTC
Do some dancers do OTC immediately, first visit, whereas some you have to see for many months ITC before OTC is available?
Is it fishy if OTC is offered too quickly? Like does it mean the dancer has a pimp or someone who will be there when you show up to meet, or that she’s setting you up for robbery etc?
Why do I have this flower by my name? Get it off ffs.
DG
@BigThirdEye
I will play along and answer your questions:
Q: How many times did you see a dancer before OTC came up or was arranged?
A: It varies in a case by casa basis, some dancers are essentially escorts and arrange OTC the first time, as long as they are comfortable and believe that you are not a LEO or a psychopath that would cause trouble or harm to her.
Q: How many visits, how long of a time period did you spend with a dancer before starting to see her OTC.
A: It varies in a case by case basis. Some take one visit, some take multiple visits over weeks, months, years. Until the stars align and OTC happens.
Q: Do some dancers do OTC immediately, first visit, whereas some you have to see for many months ITC before OTC is available?
A: YES, some dancers do OTC the same day and some you have to see for many months until she feels comfortable about doing OTC.
Q: Is it fishy if OTC is offered too quickly? Like does it mean the dancer has a pimp or someone who will be there when you show up to meet, or that she’s setting you up for robbery etc?
A: Not necessarily fishy, some dancers work like escorts and offer OTC the same day. It doesn’t mean that she is setting you up. You have to listen to your gut feeling, instinct and spider 🕷 sense, to determine if you are comfortable and believe it will be a good safe OTC experience.
Remember even the same dancer will be/behave differently every time you meet her.
“No man ever steps in the same river twice. For it's not the same river and he's not the same man.” ~ Heraclitus
Ok it's gone. Thanks.
Daily grind, new meat meaning someone you met for first time Or like a new worker at the club
Both. Either.
With NM (new meat), if the first one-on-one conversation is going well, I casually ask if she does dances OTC. If no, I ask about her ITC dances/extras. If yes, I ask her to text her name to me. That's as far as I pursue it ITC. I don't ask again or pressure her. The rest is negotiated via text/call (unless she wants to leave with me immediately). Other results have ranged from OTC the next day to just remaining club friends.
DG