Passive aggressive moves in the strip club
Muddy
USA
This one I club I go to with some regularity, it’s pretty dead and all the strippers just sit around on their phones. I’m not thrilled with this and although I don’t vocalize my displeasure I have other backhanded ways of showing my disdain. What I do is I sit off in the dark corner and stare them down with a scrunched up angry face for the duration that the club is open till. The girls usually continue to do what they normally do but if they happen to look my way they are going to catch some shade and attitude looking directly their way.
What are some passive aggressive moves you guys do in the club in express your inner sass or cattiness to show off the true bitch queen you really are? Or even done to you?
What are some passive aggressive moves you guys do in the club in express your inner sass or cattiness to show off the true bitch queen you really are? Or even done to you?
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And your broke ass is harassing them coz they ignore you.
It will hit them like a ton of bricks and their minds are blown. Sometimes the DJ will even announce for the room to clap for you. Sometimes.
If you don't like the way the dancers are just sitting around you have two reasonable options. If you see a girl that you want to get dances from walk over to her and start the conversation. Otherwise just leave and find someplace else to spend your time and money.
As a customer in a club....I've never had any dancer reject my money.
On January 25, 2022 you wrote and I quote:
“As a customer in a club....I've never had any dancer reject my money.”
So YOU are and have been a customer in Strip Club and YOU have PAID MONEY to strippers as customer.
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
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Hoes will be hoes, so I couldn't blame candy!
@denimchicken does that work? I know in the wrong place, that's setting your ass up for probably bad things.
They almost always say yes - but it does make you feel like even more like a PL. It sucks, but that’s the market - they’re lazy vendors selling a product that’s scarce (especially if they’re hot - they’re so many blah dancers working now) and we’re eager buyers.
The only alternative is to vote with your feet and leave and not go back.
If a dancer, who I find very interesting, is looking at her phone, I will just stop by and let her know of my interest. That usually works very well.
I go to strip clubs for fun and to escape drama. My "move" is always going to be finding another dancer, going to another club, or going home if options 1 and 2 don't work out.
Oh I was just being silly. I would never recommend doing what I said.
I agree with Cashman's approach, much easier that way.
Sadly, there can be a few broken ankles, as jumping up while wearing platforms can make for a dangerous landing. But then I know those limping dancers need some extra $$$…
Remember that people in their 20s tend to be more idealistic. They still may have crazy hopes, like under 90% of people will be assclowns. Not surprising that the strip club environment makes them want to hide in a dark corner in despair. With many of my most fav favs, I had to roll up on them to met them. Although, their excessive gratitude at minimally polite and considerate behavior was actually painful to see.
Here, let me fix that for you: “I avoid passive aggressive acts.”
Obviously to most, but not everyone, Muddy’s post was trolling to catch a few people who need to adjust their sarcasm filters. Since the answers actually started to seriously debate the right MO in these situations and it’s a good topic, I’ll say that passive aggressiveness is NEVER the answer in any life situation. Never say never, but this? NEVER. You don’t need to be aggressive aggressive, but be direct and polite in all phases of your life and your life will be better. If you can’t be direct in a strip club where women expect to be paid to interact with guys whom they wouldn’t talk to on the street, you’re in for a lot more misery.
In clubs, while it’s sometimes nice to have a role reversal and have the girl you’re admiring come chase you, you can’t count on that. Maybe the wrong girl comes over. Maybe the right girl is having a bad day. Maybe the right girl is hesitant to approach the guy who’s staring lasers at her skull. If she doesn’t respond to your eye contact and a smile, go talk to her. Or tip her. There are plenty of ways to gracefully initiate interaction. It really isn’t that hard to ask if she’s free or if she’d like to join you. If she says no, don’t consume yourself with sleuthing why. It doesn’t matter and it’s better than watching some other PL approach her and do what you should have done on his way to shangri la in the VIP.
I’m not immune to making a mistake in a club. I occasionally leave a club regretting not approaching someone earlier or at all. I usually have a good time but I can still learn. I have eliminated being passive aggressive from my club game and my regular life though. That shit’ll leave you frustrated and your frustration smells to any girls in your general vicinity. That’ll truly keep them away.
If it was that obvious then he wouldn't have received so many of the responses that he did.
You have yours, he has his.
From the above I got a profound whiff of satire. But maybe that's just me.
Odd (or not maybe) coming from Rick though. He’s kind of passive aggressive in the way he posts on here. He’ll come in to a thread and act confused about something, tries to bait his adversary hoping to start shit in a lot of threads. I don’t have anything against that but he definitely does that shit.
And the only deeper meaning here is probably that I drink too much
SJG
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If I post about being confused, it's likely because I am, most often because someone initially posted something so stupid or muddled that it made little sense. The more direct comments come once clarification is received.
On a broader note, while I (and I'm sure others) certainly appreciate your efforts to keep the board lively, lately your humor has been rather forced. You've always posted more like a caricature of a club hound rather than the real thing, but lately you've really been going off the rails. Just something to think about as you fine tune your character development. 😉