I've noticed that my "requirements" for dancers that I will have dance for me have become more and more limited. I am just wondering if it is me, or do others find this happening as they get older. What I've found seems to fit a few of areas. Tattoos and piercings, which I do not like, have become more and more an "eyesore" to me. I can still deal with a couple of small tats and limited piercings.
Another area, naturalness. I tend to stay away from the enhanced dancers, more and more, especially if they went way overboard.
The last reason I can really think of is their "ethnic look". I seem to have become more and more fixated on Asian dancers. The reason I say "ethnic look", is that I've talked to dancers that are no part Asian, as far as they know, but have the "look" I like. Problem is, these dancers are few and far between, in South Florida, in my experience.
I think another part of it is also very much a factor, but has nothing to do with the dancers, that is, money and time. Since I retired, my disposable income is not what it once was, so I do not wish to "waste" money on anyone other than one I truly enjoy seeing. Time wise, I have the time, as such, but not the ability to use it. I don't think my SO (even though we've been to a club together) would care for me to say, I'll be back in a bit. I'm going to a strip club to see if I can find a dancer to dance for me. Thoughts?
Older dancers who have been dancing for years generally give the best dances. I prefer my dancers to be in their mid thirties or higher.