Who dances for you?
Clubber
Florida
I've noticed that my "requirements" for dancers that I will have dance for me have become more and more limited. I am just wondering if it is me, or do others find this happening as they get older. What I've found seems to fit a few of areas. Tattoos and piercings, which I do not like, have become more and more an "eyesore" to me. I can still deal with a couple of small tats and limited piercings.
Another area, naturalness. I tend to stay away from the enhanced dancers, more and more, especially if they went way overboard.
The last reason I can really think of is their "ethnic look". I seem to have become more and more fixated on Asian dancers. The reason I say "ethnic look", is that I've talked to dancers that are no part Asian, as far as they know, but have the "look" I like. Problem is, these dancers are few and far between, in South Florida, in my experience.
I think another part of it is also very much a factor, but has nothing to do with the dancers, that is, money and time. Since I retired, my disposable income is not what it once was, so I do not wish to "waste" money on anyone other than one I truly enjoy seeing. Time wise, I have the time, as such, but not the ability to use it. I don't think my SO (even though we've been to a club together) would care for me to say, I'll be back in a bit. I'm going to a strip club to see if I can find a dancer to dance for me. Thoughts?
Another area, naturalness. I tend to stay away from the enhanced dancers, more and more, especially if they went way overboard.
The last reason I can really think of is their "ethnic look". I seem to have become more and more fixated on Asian dancers. The reason I say "ethnic look", is that I've talked to dancers that are no part Asian, as far as they know, but have the "look" I like. Problem is, these dancers are few and far between, in South Florida, in my experience.
I think another part of it is also very much a factor, but has nothing to do with the dancers, that is, money and time. Since I retired, my disposable income is not what it once was, so I do not wish to "waste" money on anyone other than one I truly enjoy seeing. Time wise, I have the time, as such, but not the ability to use it. I don't think my SO (even though we've been to a club together) would care for me to say, I'll be back in a bit. I'm going to a strip club to see if I can find a dancer to dance for me. Thoughts?
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With some cash I like to make dancers happy even if I'm not to attracted to them. My cash goes down and I want to find the special one who can send me to heaven.
At one time I thought age was making me more demanding as far as looks. It turned out money was a greater influence in my case. I just didn't want to spend on the nice dancer who didn't meet my looks requirement. Now as far as my ability to perform unless the dancer is hot there is just nothing at all. This is age related. When I was younger an ugly woman could get me to respond it just wasn't as enjoyable. Now, the woman has to be hot it isn't a choice it is unfortunately a requirement.
It seems that I'm looking more towards black women as I age. There could be any number of reasons for this.
Do I make exceptions? If a girl is very close to the above, I will consider - she will get more consideration if I'm running out of time to find someone to spend some time with.
A great example of an exception that I've made is ironically my ATF, though she was so close to the type I go for, I don't really think I made much of an exception. She had everything but the long hair... her hair was shoulder length, and she had a tat on her stomach - and seemingly completely out of her character. I should note here, that a few months after meeting her, Miss ATF got her hair cut SHORTER (about jawline length) ... I damn near cried!
There are, and always will be several "deal breakers" that if a dancer possesses lead to automatic rejection. At the top of the list is probably fat... if she's too thick, forget about it! Another is the really short, "boy cut" hairdos. No thanks! (though, I have seen ONE girl in my lifetime that was so absolutely smokin' hot that I could overlook that) Another is a large collection of tats, or worse yet one of those "sleeve tats". Strange piercings (nipple, eyebrow, earplug, big nose ring, lip ring). Again, I've seen ONE girl that had a lip ring that I SOOO wanted to feel what it was like to kiss... or have it rubbing up and down against my rod.
I like the "career" comment! Funny! The "long straight, silky/shiny hair" is a must for me. Goes with the Asian aspect.
My insight... she had the above mentioned hair, but wasn't Asian. She was, however 1/2 Italian. I know I like Asian women, but I think a foreign exotic look is a decent substitute.
Since then, I prefer "au natural", no enhanced boobs (or anything else as far as that goes). The 'au natural' stops at hair though. I like my women completely shaved. Sucking on a clit, swiping my tonge along a beautiful set of vaginal lips, is so exotic, until little hairs start piling up on my tongue!!! YUK!!!
No fatties..... I'll go home and jack-off first!!!
Nationality doesn't really play into my choices. I am a TRUE believer that God brought ALL women into His world with the SAME attributes!
Hugely turned on by slender and shapely Asians of various kinds, enhancements OK if done very modestly - they rarely ever have TATS. Have met some with great/fun personalities also
Light skinned Brazilians that happen to have the (brazilian portuguese) sexy accent is a big big turn-on for me also
Woman I flipped out the most was a Brazilian (technically half italy/half Brazilian) who looked Russian - but had the very sexy Brazilian Portuguese accent. Slender at 5-4 around 130 but not too slender with a very very nice ass and legs and B size natural and pretty (but not knock-dead pretty face) , intelligent, college educated, and completely unattached romantically to anyone else
Other latin (spanish speaking) girls very sexy too -and accent is very good
american girls - rarely get much of a kick for reasons I don't understand
Russian girls - not much in our area, but love the accents
As I stated above, I think a foreign exotic look is a decent substitute for an Asian woman. The accent is definitely a part of it, also.
Why not American women...? My guess is that they are just the vast majority. Although, in South Florida, the hispanic women are there in great numbers. That is one foreign group that does attract me. So it seems, for me, the rarer the appearance and accent of a woman, the better.