Skipping the dance - sending money directly to the dancer?
From one of the many hate mongers on the Pink Site, BELLA 21, this post today under the "Bad! No Touchie" thread
"This has been something that's bugged me since I've started dancing... WHY do they have to fvcking touch my hair?! I mean, it's not like I enjoy them touching me ANYWHERE, but at least I can rub some disinfectant on my back or arm... When they touch my hair, there's nothing I can do! Ugh, and they like, pet it... wtf?! I have to try to not think about the icky germs in my hair until I can get home and wash it."
Maybe us patrons can just stay home, and just send the cash to the club with the dancers name on it, and in our minds imagine a dance, and we can then avoid all offensive touching of any kind. Gee actually stroking a dancer's hair - think of the horror of it all. Only an obvious rapist and lowlife would ever do that dreaded act.
"This has been something that's bugged me since I've started dancing... WHY do they have to fvcking touch my hair?! I mean, it's not like I enjoy them touching me ANYWHERE, but at least I can rub some disinfectant on my back or arm... When they touch my hair, there's nothing I can do! Ugh, and they like, pet it... wtf?! I have to try to not think about the icky germs in my hair until I can get home and wash it."
Maybe us patrons can just stay home, and just send the cash to the club with the dancers name on it, and in our minds imagine a dance, and we can then avoid all offensive touching of any kind. Gee actually stroking a dancer's hair - think of the horror of it all. Only an obvious rapist and lowlife would ever do that dreaded act.
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I don't know about you, but I would just as soon NOT know what some of the more computer-literate strippers are REALLY thinking about us PL's.
"Ignorance is bliss and I'm deliriously happy!"
I am a clean person myself and like to stay that way, but I'm sure not going to get all upset about a dancer running her hands through my hair, or what's left of it! I'm thinking how many times a dancer has left me with my scent or 'stains' on her and gone directly to the next customer without washing her hands.
My advice? Better stay home, near the bathroom.
By the way I didn't think david had a problem with germs but was simply being a bit sarcastic about what he read on the pink site. I don't bother reading anything there.
I will occasionally put money in my mouth when tipping a dancer, however I like using a clean looking bill (I heard paper money isn't that bad). Actually just drinking the ice out of vending machines or possibly even fast food restaurants may be dirtier water than found in some toilets. I read many ice vending machines have not been cleaned and the water found in toilet water is cleaner in many cases. I just figure my body is in a constant state of war with the germs etc. trying to invade. I try to help by washing my hands and avoiding bad practices but I'm not living in fear.
This job is what is..
Last night I had a customer who had been in earlier in the night..Left met up with some friends, one who is fond of me, so later he brought the friend back..
Needless to say the friend was to drunk for me to want to deal with so what did I do, said sorry to the one who brought him back that he was just to drunk and walked away...
Everyone deserves to be treated with respect, i don't like their out look and opinons of men, and why they think that way, this job hasn't jaded me in this way nor will it ever, you horny guys are what gives me a great job..
As far as the pink board, as I've said I think most of that is like high school where the "cool" girls set the tone and others are afraid to contradict them. I think FONDL alluded to it in a way, it seems like half the posts are looking for some sort of affirmation that they are better than their customers and those other dancers.
Its the patron-hating DANCER here that is making the big deal of germs
Exactly and I am amazed that anyone could seriously believe I would send money to a club with a girls name on it - so I could then have an imaginary dance - all to avoid germs
First, in the example above... touching the hair is disgusting to some dancers?! I have a bit of a hair fetish... I'm a real sucker for a girl that has long, shiny, silky hair.... I love touching their hair... burying my face in it (gosh, that'd probably send that dancer above into hyperventilation!) I've only been told by two dancers not to touch their hair... that was two dancers that only got one dance from me. On the other hand, quite a few dancers have told me that they like to have their hair played with.. stroked... pulled... (I guess maybe they caught onto my fetish and were playing up to it?!)
What makes it so scary? Everyone carries staph bacteria on their skin. If you have an open wound, you are susceptible to contracting an infection. As you might know, a lot of staph infections are NOT treatable w/antibiotics because many of the strains have developed immunity to the medications. There's also the flesh-eating strains... I've seen some pics of what can happen and it can be horrific.
Recent reports have said that staph infections are more contagious and effect more people than aids.
But to get back to the original topic, forget the hair, I'd rather play with boobs anyway. I wonder how she feels (no pun intended) about that?