DougS's marriage is over.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Dude, not to single you out but your posts show that you have more interest in your ATF than family. I'm not saying that is bad. When a divorce is in the works, get it done. I waited too long to get mine. Yes I had a ATF but my marriage was on the rocks long before that. My ATF did not cause the breakup of my marriage but was rather the result of it. I have been divorced for 3 1/2 years now and love my new independance. I answer to know one. My original ATF is gone as is my 2nd but I still love my favorites because they know that I am just there for fun.
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Sometimes you may never know when a breakup will occur. I had one in-law take a trip to Antarctica for 6 months and he met someone and got divorced. I could tell you more but then I would have to kill you (something I heard him say before, a good conversation killer).
I'm glad you aren't singling me out! I've probably waited too long, too. It's a scary, big-time life changing decision. The biggest reason for not plunging ahead is the family part. I also, as shallow as it sounds, don't want to take that step unless I know there is "someone else" waiting for me.
It probably is just a matter of time, though... with or without that safety net. I'm just hoping it's WITH.
If you don't mind me asking, what was it that pushed you over the edge and into an attorney's office? (you can answer that in email, if you want - or, ignore it, if I'm being too nosy)
I'll be 66 in Jan and plan to work at least until 70. I love my job and have no big plans for retirement.
I hope you got my point. Marrying a much younger women, with a totally different background from yours can be desastrious. Emotionally and financially.
I will continue to visit strip clubs as long as my health and finances allows. I might work until I am 80 or 90!!!
Just sign me "Dear Abbeycat" or House mom...
Thanks for sharing that with me... I was being nosy, but I wasn't looking for that much detail, however it was appreciated, nonetheless.
Wow... your account of what happened sounds hellish! I'm glad you were able to get out of that situation, and have been able to dig yourself out of the whole that was dug for you.
You painted a pretty dismal picture of what can happen, and it is a wake up call. My situation at home Disneyland compared to that.