If men always are asking their wives and girlfriends for blowjobs, if brides are always smiling because she has given her last blowjob, then why does fs always cost more?
Because blowjobs allow a higher degree of control from the provider. Something about having teeth nearby one’s junk that helps out psychologically when being alone with a person one may not know too well.
Doing full service and something happens that’s not as comfortable? Then it’s up to the other party’s own graces to adjust more comfortably.
If a married guy isn't getting bj's; he should look at his failure in making her want to. The day I meet someone better than my wife in the bj department, will apparently be never, as she remains #1 after 52 years of bjs.
A century ago, blowjobs cost 2-3x the price of intercourse. They were seen as dirtier and forbidden.
Now the stigma is gone and BJs are only considered "third base."
I have had strippers that provided FS tell me they charged extra for BJ, they only did it for their boyfriend or that they did not do it at all. Except for the boyfriend thing, it was because they disliked it.
Luckily I have never had one tell me it reminded them of when they had a dick!
I believe OP's question is valid for the following reasons.
To Tetradon's point, BJs are considered only 3rd base and so conventional wisdom would quite naturally consider FS (home base) the ultimate sexual act. (At least within traditional boundaries, excluding the real freaky stuff.) That might be true for bragging rights among teenagers trying to impress each other with "how far they got."
But if you think of it from a professional sex worker's point of view, a BJ seems a lot more difficult to perform. The guy might be fat and disgusting, with wild untrimmed pubes and sweaty ball stank. He might have dirty underwear that smells like ass. Having to put your mouth and nose that close to such a mess has got to be worse than getting fucked. I mean, shit, if a fat nasty grandma paid me for sex, I'd much rather give her the old hot beef injection than eat out her stinky wrinkled-up pussy.
@misterorange, there's some truth to that, and it might explain why there isn't a perfect correlation. I've known strippers that charge the same for both, or only do FS (one because BJs mess up her lipstick, ha.)
I'd be interested to see a societal breakdown. Ancient Romans considered anal cleaner than oral, did their prices reflect that? Level of taboo, chance of pregnancy, cleanliness, comfort, what costs extra?
I have/had 2 brothers and among the 6 girls we all have in common; 4 of them always provided just bj's to the neighborhood guys because sex was too personal. This was 1973 - 76.
There is useful insight in the posts above. I think someone developed the ranking of sex acts years ago - and it continues today.
BJ’s are very enjoyable - and they should have similar pricing to full sex. Maybe it’s not the enjoyment that matters in the pricing - but the ease of performing the act? For a BJ ITC - a stripper can unzip a guy get him hard with her hand - put a condom on - and jerk and mouth him to completion. It can be more logistics when fucking a guy ITC. If the guy has a small cock - and he’s fat - the dancer must get him hard - wrap his wee willy - then straddle him and ride him until he makes a mess. If his cock falls out of her - it’s a challenge to get it back in - while straddling a guy in a broom closet sized place.
There is another reason we missed. Giving a BJ in a club it is very obvious what you are doing. No way to hide it. FS in CG or RCG can look like just a dance. Many girls want to or have to hide what they are doing. So giving a BJ has higher risk of getting caught/getting in trouble.
I find FS costs twice as much and the marketplace is seldom wrong. In addition, anti death penalty people always claim that being locked up forever is as bad, if not worse than death. If so, how come in the last 50 years only 2 people chose death over life in prison??????
Of the dancers that offer either, in my experience most offer either or both for the same price. But some do have an upcharge for FS. I have seen it in the $50 to $100 range. I have also seen some with crazy high prices. $300 for VIP includes BJ, but FS is $800. I think those are simply a way of saying they do not want to do FS or not want to do it very often. I suppose if you take them up on the offer they will do it for the huge payday.
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Doing full service and something happens that’s not as comfortable? Then it’s up to the other party’s own graces to adjust more comfortably.
Or at least that’s my guess 🤷🏻♀️
Now the stigma is gone and BJs are only considered "third base."
Luckily I have never had one tell me it reminded them of when they had a dick!
To Tetradon's point, BJs are considered only 3rd base and so conventional wisdom would quite naturally consider FS (home base) the ultimate sexual act. (At least within traditional boundaries, excluding the real freaky stuff.) That might be true for bragging rights among teenagers trying to impress each other with "how far they got."
But if you think of it from a professional sex worker's point of view, a BJ seems a lot more difficult to perform. The guy might be fat and disgusting, with wild untrimmed pubes and sweaty ball stank. He might have dirty underwear that smells like ass. Having to put your mouth and nose that close to such a mess has got to be worse than getting fucked. I mean, shit, if a fat nasty grandma paid me for sex, I'd much rather give her the old hot beef injection than eat out her stinky wrinkled-up pussy.
I'd be interested to see a societal breakdown. Ancient Romans considered anal cleaner than oral, did their prices reflect that? Level of taboo, chance of pregnancy, cleanliness, comfort, what costs extra?
For the libs on here, that was sarcasm.
Plus oral is lower risk for UTIs, etc. And can be done during her period.
BJ’s are very enjoyable - and they should have similar pricing to full sex. Maybe it’s not the enjoyment that matters in the pricing - but the ease of performing the act? For a BJ ITC - a stripper can unzip a guy get him hard with her hand - put a condom on - and jerk and mouth him to completion. It can be more logistics when fucking a guy ITC. If the guy has a small cock - and he’s fat - the dancer must get him hard - wrap his wee willy - then straddle him and ride him until he makes a mess. If his cock falls out of her - it’s a challenge to get it back in - while straddling a guy in a broom closet sized place.