Is having a regular worth it if you don't go to clubs a lot?
docsavage
Indiana
Once all the clubs open back up I'm thinking of only going a couple times a month. I formerly would usually go several times a month and have a couple of regulars I would see twice a month at two clubs along with occasional trips to other clubs. I can't do that with fewer visits so I need to either drop the regulars or drop the occasional visits to other clubs. If you were making this decision what decision would you make and why? If you already made that decision in the past, what decision did you make and how did it turn out?
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I'm a variety guy all the way - in the first-half of my PL-career I would hit all types of clubs (dives, upscale, mixed; black, etc) - my preference was for good-value black clubs (mostly b/c it was all black-dancers which is my pref, the better value was an added bonus) - anyway, me liking variety I would also hit upscale non-black clubs which were also more expensive - w/ time, as hard as I was SCing, I couldn't keep up clubbing like I did and decided to go with (spend my funds) on my default preference which were black clubs, and in my area, also happened to be a much better value (but even if they were the same price, I still would've opted for mostly black-club-clubbing - I used to hit the mixed-clubs more for a change of pace but I felt I wasn't getting the same value since I was spending a good amount of $$$ for a secondary preference).
Example - I would go to this club where extras were the norm, and met a girl that I hit it off with well. She was not the hottest girl in the club at the time, but she was in the upper tier (top 20%) of the talent pool. I would make it to this club maybe 6-10 times a year. 75% of the time I went there she was working. Had a good time, she gave top notch service (but was not cheap compared to the going rate there), but the moment I walked through the door she didn't leave my side. Why? She new I was there to spend money and she wanted to make sure she was the one who received it, nothing better than a sure thing right? The positive side was I was going to get great service in the VIP, and have a good night EVERY TIME I hung out with her. The bad part? I couldn't sample anyone else.
Now, several of those nights that she wasn't there, I struck out. Even though I was in an open extras friendly club, with money to spend, for some reason I would leave with a pocket full of cash. Sometimes I couldn't find a girl I liked, or the girl(s) I did like were too tied up to come see me.
It goes both ways but looking back, since she was in the upper tier of girl quality and gave great service, I'd take seeing her the 6 times a year that I visited that club versus rolling the dice. Since the club was not near where I lived and I didn't get to go as often as I would have liked, a night there was a BIG DEAL to me, and the nights I left empty handed were really frustrating, because I couldn't go back the next night, or next week. Some years, it may be 3-4 months before I would be back there again due to work.
I don’t go to any other strip club or days when she’s not working.
Saves me time and money