Stella doesn’t work here anymore

STELLA

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"Is if Ok for you to fuck a women who has agreed to a monogamous relationship with someone other than you?"

The answer is... not coming from me. That's a decision you have to make about every pussy you get offered - assuming she actually tells you her relationship status. So if you care, you should ask. If you don't care... have a nice day.

So, does Stella's cousin still work there?

As to your question, I understand your hesitation about girl friends, spouses, but a sugary babe isn't "his" in the same sense; their 'connection' is, at least in part, commercial. Going all porno with her sounds fun. Consenting adults and all.

@gSteph. No Stella’s cousin had to quit at her Sugar Daddy’s insistence and he keeps her on a tight leash monitoring her phone and all. I think he’s afraid she would meet up with some other guy or something crazy like that.

Stella was my conduit to her cousin. In fact she was the one that suggested the arrangement in the first place. I just went along for the ride because, did I mention Stella’s cousin has a magic pussy? I never brought anything up but Stella would always ask if I was staying at my same hotel as usual, disappear to make a phone call and then come ask if I would be at my hotel at whatever time. Then coincidentally her cousin would show up in the lobby at that same time. Imagine that. lol

Don't panic Shirley Stella has more cousins

Just to give a bit more perspective on sugaring.

Each sugar relationship is different. Some are (typically) completely NSA (No strings attached) and each person is free to do whatever they want with whoever they want when not with the other. However, there are some sugar daddies who ask for (or demand) an exclusive arrangement. In a perfect world, if a guy asks for this he should be paying for it. That should mean she is able to live off his sugar without the need to meet with other guys or even work a regular job.

Sadly, there are many asshole daddies who, just like in their regular relationships, are jealous, controlling and abusive. And also sadly, there are women who try sugar who are attracted to, or at least unable to get away from these assholes. The SD you describe above sounds like the asshole type. So HE almost certainly expects her to be faithful. But as I mentioned before, the question is what does SHE expect from herself?

I don’t believe any sugar daddy or sugar baby is only sleeping with one person so you’re putting yourself at risk. Every girl I know who sugars (or whatever) says guys tell her all the time how they are safe and tested etc etc but they never ask to see HER test results. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 It’s your dick I guess. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@PinkSugarDoll. Interesting comments. It should be obvious from my post that I sleep around a lot both paid and unpaid. I get tested but I never tell anyone that I’m safe and believe it or not, no woman has ever asked. I try to be selective and do practice “safe sex” but like all things in life each person has to weigh the risk/benefit for him/her self - you pay your money and take your chances.

Also I don’t “Sugar” and while I believe in “to each his own” I shake my head at some of the arrangements that I’m aware of. And that goes both ways SD and SB. Some of these guys that I talk with are just “stupid” IMO but it’s their money and only they can decide whether it’s worth it or not to them. And one SB that I know well is a nice single mom with a daughter to support and was asking my advice about her “relationship”. When I found out how little her SD was giving her I about fell off my bar stool. Not only was it meager but he insisted that she use part of it to go to the gym to get rid of her belly. She had no belly! So fuck yeah, I shake my head a lot.

I'm not going to go into details of my many SB arrangements over the last 9 years. But I will repeat what I said before; every arrangement is different and every SB and SD are different as well. For me, I do get tested regularly and I ask my SB's to do so as well. And we actively compare results every time. Like any relationship, transparency, honesty and trust are keys to making it mutually beneficial and lasting more than short time.

I’m much older than the two dancers who I’m currently “active” with. They both have BF’s or baby daddy’s. I’ve gotten to know the other men. One, who knows I’ve been playing “hide the salami” with his fiancé for the previous 10 years, tells me I’m like “one of the family”. She recently came into me ( she needed money) and I said to her that I wouldn’t feel right doing that to him. When she stopped laughing we began negotiating. The other one has two kids by the guy, is still banging him (and another BF), and last week after she and I had finished our business, she texted him to come over. He was there within 5 minutes, rolled a couple of blunts, and we sat around bullshitting for a couple of hours. I asked her later how she explained my presence to him? She just shrugged her shoulders and told me “don’t worry about it. We’re cool.” I know with my ATF, she had a BF all the time I was seeing her and I got to know him quite well. I’ve often wondered if because I’m 40+ years older if they view me as harmless/no threat/ source of income for them as well?