Stella doesn’t work here anymore

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BabyDoc
Wayfaring Stranger
Those words hit me like a truck when I went to a club that I frequent whenever in town. I’ve known Stella (not her real fake name) for about 2.5 to 3 years. She was a cocktail waitress with a cute smile and she always made time to come sit with me. I’ve bought her many drinks over the years and always tipped her generously but I’ve never been interested in Stella. Now Stella’s cousin is a different story.

Stella’s cousin used to dance in this club and we had a thing.
Stella’s cousin was hot as fuck and reminded me of an old GF.
Stella’s cousin gave great BJs.
Stella’s cousin’s real talent was her magic pussy.
Stella’s cousin quit when she got a controlling Sugar Daddy who monitored her phone.
Stella’s cousin’s rent, all bills and a monthly allowance were paid by her Sugar Daddy.
Stella’s cousin always showed up at my hotel a few hours after I saw Stella.
Did I mention that Stella’s cousin had a magic pussy?


Yeah all good things come to an end but beyond my not so humble brag I have a question to pose. What are your feelings about screwing around with someone else’s piece of ass? Does it make any difference if her status is Married, a GF, or a paid for Sugar Baby (that’s a prostitute for those not up to date on today’s sugar coated vernacular)?

For me I don’t like the idea of fucking married women. I’ve actually been involved with a few who lied about it. Two were my GF. The first told me she was divorced but it wasn’t until after a year that she left her yet to be completed divorce paperwork in my car that I discovered the truth but at least she had been separated. The other was a long distance GF who lied about not being married for four years. She’s still married and living with her husband as far as I know. I feel really bad about that one.

Normally I would say someone’s GF is off limits but I’m currently on the verge of breaking up a relationship as we have been “cheating” behind the BF’s back though we haven’t fucked yet but the temptation is there. I think I’ll insist we wait until she officially breaks up with him.

Now Sugar Babies are a different story for me. I fucked Stella’s cousin often and didn’t really think about her Sugar Daddy one way or the other. That is not the case with another girl. I know who her Sugar Daddy is and I don’t much like him. When I fuck his Sugar Baby I go all porno and cum all over her. We’ve laughed about her not cleaning up before she sleeps with him. Not necessarily proud about that but what can I say.

So does it matter to you? Thoughts?

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twentyfive
5 years ago
STELLA
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herbtcat
5 years ago
GF, Sugar Baby, Wife, Stripper... these titles are not relevant titles or statuses to your question:

"Is if Ok for you to fuck a women who has agreed to a monogamous relationship with someone other than you?"

The answer is... not coming from me. That's a decision you have to make about every pussy you get offered - assuming she actually tells you her relationship status. So if you care, you should ask. If you don't care... have a nice day.
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gSteph
5 years ago
So, does Stella's cousin still work there?

As to your question, I understand your hesitation about girl friends, spouses, but a sugary babe isn't "his" in the same sense; their 'connection' is, at least in part, commercial. Going all porno with her sounds fun. Consenting adults and all.
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BabyDoc
5 years ago
@gSteph. No Stella’s cousin had to quit at her Sugar Daddy’s insistence and he keeps her on a tight leash monitoring her phone and all. I think he’s afraid she would meet up with some other guy or something crazy like that.

Stella was my conduit to her cousin. In fact she was the one that suggested the arrangement in the first place. I just went along for the ride because, did I mention Stella’s cousin has a magic pussy? I never brought anything up but Stella would always ask if I was staying at my same hotel as usual, disappear to make a phone call and then come ask if I would be at my hotel at whatever time. Then coincidentally her cousin would show up in the lobby at that same time. Imagine that. lol
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elmer
5 years ago
Don't panic Shirley Stella has more cousins
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herbtcat
5 years ago
Just to give a bit more perspective on sugaring.

Each sugar relationship is different. Some are (typically) completely NSA (No strings attached) and each person is free to do whatever they want with whoever they want when not with the other. However, there are some sugar daddies who ask for (or demand) an exclusive arrangement. In a perfect world, if a guy asks for this he should be paying for it. That should mean she is able to live off his sugar without the need to meet with other guys or even work a regular job.

Sadly, there are many asshole daddies who, just like in their regular relationships, are jealous, controlling and abusive. And also sadly, there are women who try sugar who are attracted to, or at least unable to get away from these assholes. The SD you describe above sounds like the asshole type. So HE almost certainly expects her to be faithful. But as I mentioned before, the question is what does SHE expect from herself?
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PinkSugarDoll
5 years ago
I don’t believe any sugar daddy or sugar baby is only sleeping with one person so you’re putting yourself at risk.
Every girl I know who sugars (or whatever) says guys tell her all the time how they are safe and tested etc etc but they never ask to see HER test results. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
It’s your dick I guess. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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BabyDoc
5 years ago
@PinkSugarDoll. Interesting comments. It should be obvious from my post that I sleep around a lot both paid and unpaid. I get tested but I never tell anyone that I’m safe and believe it or not, no woman has ever asked. I try to be selective and do practice “safe sex” but like all things in life each person has to weigh the risk/benefit for him/her self - you pay your money and take your chances.

Also I don’t “Sugar” and while I believe in “to each his own” I shake my head at some of the arrangements that I’m aware of. And that goes both ways SD and SB. Some of these guys that I talk with are just “stupid” IMO but it’s their money and only they can decide whether it’s worth it or not to them. And one SB that I know well is a nice single mom with a daughter to support and was asking my advice about her “relationship”. When I found out how little her SD was giving her I about fell off my bar stool. Not only was it meager but he insisted that she use part of it to go to the gym to get rid of her belly. She had no belly! So fuck yeah, I shake my head a lot.
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herbtcat
5 years ago
I'm not going to go into details of my many SB arrangements over the last 9 years. But I will repeat what I said before; every arrangement is different and every SB and SD are different as well. For me, I do get tested regularly and I ask my SB's to do so as well. And we actively compare results every time. Like any relationship, transparency, honesty and trust are keys to making it mutually beneficial and lasting more than short time.
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gawker
5 years ago
I’m much older than the two dancers who I’m currently “active” with. They both have BF’s or baby daddy’s. I’ve gotten to know the other men. One, who knows I’ve been playing “hide the salami” with his fiancé for the previous 10 years, tells me I’m like “one of the family”. She recently came into me ( she needed money) and I said to her that I wouldn’t feel right doing that to him. When she stopped laughing we began negotiating.
The other one has two kids by the guy, is still banging him (and another BF), and last week after she and I had finished our business, she texted him to come over. He was there within 5 minutes, rolled a couple of blunts, and we sat around bullshitting for a couple of hours. I asked her later how she explained my presence to him? She just shrugged her shoulders and told me “don’t worry about it. We’re cool.” I know with my ATF, she had a BF all the time I was seeing her and I got to know him quite well. I’ve often wondered if because I’m 40+ years older if they view me as harmless/no threat/ source of income for them as well?
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