Ok well I was at dimond jims tonight got home and I just got on here tonight thought I see is anyone wanted to chat. Sorry if I upset you. Have a good night
-->"Everyone commenting here was a newbie at one time! Give the fellow a break."
Everyone here was a newbie, but I'd be willing to bet that NONE of us jumped onto a forum full of dudes with a "let's chat tonight ladies" message. If I were goofy enough to do that, I'd expect to get some well-deserved good-natured ball busting.
"There were no old timers back in 2000. :)"
Perhaps not old time tuscl members but i had already earned my PL badge on usenet and had been hitting strip clubs for two decades.
@K that would be me. I felt the inside of a vagina about a decade and a half before I had an LDK and was ready to basically reiterate what Papi said.
All I've learned is that different people are turned on by different things. For this reason, some guys can easily LDK from a lap dance, and some can't. It's really that simple. If you're in the latter, just accept it and move on. If you're in the former, accept that you might be ridiculed by guys that can't, and just move on.
And I'll add that I've never understood for the life of me, why folks don't question cumming from a handjob, but the same folks then question cumming from a girl in a thong rubbing her ass on your boner covered by just thin slacks.
It's pretty much the same action, using different body parts. Only difference is that maybe the girl's hand is coming in direct contact with your penis vs a girls ass rubbing your penis through your pants. It it's basically the same thing. She's rubbing that magical, pleasurable organ. You find her sexy and you enjoy the feeling and after a certain time, splash.
All other things equal I'll take an LDK over an HJ every time. It feels better. But as good as pussy or a BJ not so much. It's just another way of getting oneself off and YMMV.
A hand is a different organ and a HJ is just a different methodology from a girl rubbing on you - most guys can't cum from rubbing against a girl even if they find it pleasurable - only "the few - the proud - the LDKers" - you guys are like the select special-forces of cumming
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@Papi FWIW I wasn't born into LDKing. I believe part of it with me developed during my puberty when I learned to masturbate very similarly to getting grinded by a lapdance.
@Papi when I was talking about that special organ on a dude, I was talking about his dick. Whether it's being rubbed by a woman's hand, his own hand, or a woman's ass in a thong it's basically doing the same thing IMO. From there I think it's all about how the guy perceives the action as to whether he can cum or not. As I find grinding on woman's ass incredibly sexy it's easy for me to LDK. However to this day I've never cum from a handjob from a girl. I've jerked myself off plenty of times but I'm always either thinking of a sexual act or watching porn while I'm jerking myself off. Whereas when a girl is grinding her ass on me I'm not thinking of any other act, that act itself is turning me on enough.
So all that shit I wrote just reiterates SLD's statement that it's all mental.
I understood what you meant about the organ - I was just trying to state a hand is different than other body parts and can function differently and have a different effect.
It is what it is - I guess most of us were not aware of the LDK phenomenon till LDK82 boldly staked his LDK-flag on TUSCL.
"Perhaps not old time tuscl members but i had already earned my PL badge on usenet and had been hitting strip clubs for two decades."
Of course, but I didn't use any source other than visiting clubs until I discovered TUSCL in 2000. To this day, on site is the best way to learn and will always be.
I love Papi's metaphor for LDKers being special forces. Except I'd more call them our PL shock troops. Particularly given the shock new strippers have when they experience their first LDK :) :)
BTW, speaking of 2000, is that when founder created tuscl? I don't remember exact dates, but there was an early version of the forum that was just basically one text-based log of comments, very early on in tuscl's lifetime. So, despite me only being on this forum for like 4 years or however long, I may well be earliest poster on tuscl who is still here -- all of us SF guys used that forum as home base early on, before we moved on to more local forums with better forum software. Maybe founder can comment if he remembers what his first forum was like
^ There’s evidence of TUSCLers in hyroglyphics found on cave walls, and other. ancient drawings, I think there’s even a Rune TUSCL Stone that’s been credited to Lief the Lucky 😁
Papi -- it makes sense that it was prior to 2000 -- those early text-based forums were mid-to-late 90s, if I recall correctly. By 2000 forums had started to become threaded, etc
All I know is I was in Ohio and looking for clubs and stumbled on TUSCL. No idea what I was using to search back in 2000. I was in IT back then and had access to more than the general public had, but so much has changed, I had to memory dump for all the newer stuff.
Not sure when the discussion boards started but I did anonymous reviews starting around 1997. Even had one of my first ones rejected when Founder or one of his editors actually read it. I rewrote it and it got accepted. No registered names were required back then for using the site.
Hmm, on whatever that original forum was, there were definitely handles. I could see all the names and personalities, etc., it wasn't like 4chan style anonymity
I forgot about that article, thanks Papi. No mention of forum history, alas. On the other hand, I was reminded that SJG set up those lifeboat forums, so there you go
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Founder gets grief every day from us. More than enough to make up for never having been a newbie.
You say, "You are right. Everyone of us was a newbie and everyone of us got our balls busted by the old timers"
I didn't. There were no old timers back in 2000. :)
Everyone here was a newbie, but I'd be willing to bet that NONE of us jumped onto a forum full of dudes with a "let's chat tonight ladies" message. If I were goofy enough to do that, I'd expect to get some well-deserved good-natured ball busting.
Perhaps not old time tuscl members but i had already earned my PL badge on usenet and had been hitting strip clubs for two decades.
That's not something that can be learned/taught - LDKers are born not made
It requires proper penis placement and not know what the inside of a vagina feels like
All I've learned is that different people are turned on by different things. For this reason, some guys can easily LDK from a lap dance, and some can't. It's really that simple. If you're in the latter, just accept it and move on. If you're in the former, accept that you might be ridiculed by guys that can't, and just move on.
It's pretty much the same action, using different body parts. Only difference is that maybe the girl's hand is coming in direct contact with your penis vs a girls ass rubbing your penis through your pants. It it's basically the same thing. She's rubbing that magical, pleasurable organ. You find her sexy and you enjoy the feeling and after a certain time, splash.
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Also it's a mental thing too.
So all that shit I wrote just reiterates SLD's statement that it's all mental.
It is what it is - I guess most of us were not aware of the LDK phenomenon till LDK82 boldly staked his LDK-flag on TUSCL.
"Perhaps not old time tuscl members but i had already earned my PL badge on usenet and had been hitting strip clubs for two decades."
Of course, but I didn't use any source other than visiting clubs until I discovered TUSCL in 2000. To this day, on site is the best way to learn and will always be.
You and I are the a.s.s-c old timers, if I remember right? I can't remember, did you ever meet any of the other asscers?
Responding privately on your question. I'm not looking to derail this thread more than I have
I joined September of 2000. shadowcat was here before that even thought his "date"joined" is later.
https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=6702