I feel sorry for sugar daddies...

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• skibum609

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  5 years ago

  IQ of 37 is required for a post like this.
• twentyfive

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  5 years ago

  >I feel sorry for sugar daddies...< I’m sure the feeling would be mutual if they knew that you even existed.
• Subraman

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  5 years ago

  Sometimes I forget to turn my swag off when I go to sleep, and I wake up all covered in bitches
• Subraman

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  5 years ago

  Main bitches, side bitches, tall bitches, short bitches, hairy bitches, smelly bitches, fat bitches, midget bitches Bitches, bitches, all kinda bitches
• twentyfive

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  5 years ago

  ^Team Locka trumps Team Winning Team again Lol
• Warrior15

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  5 years ago

  Having a relationship with a woman like that knowing what she is doing to that Sugar Daddy. I would think that compares to being an accomplice. That is theft what she is doing to him. I wouldn't trust her one inch.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  I don't think she's trustworthy. Women like her compartmentalize men.... Just coz she's not using me for money doesn't mean she's not using me. He fulfills one of her needs, I fulfill another. That's how women like her view people. I think she does have feelings for me, as much as she can have feelings.... but they're based on what I do for her, how I make her feel, how I fill the role in her life that she associates me with. I honestly wouldn't mind if she was hoeing .....or even if she had an arrangement with him. But this isn't going to end well. I feel sorry for him, but I'm more concerned for her safety and the drama that's gonna come out of this.
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  I've never liked the idea of SD - SB. But keeping a mistress is okay by me. SJG
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  Sometimes I think if they're that stupid they get what they deserve
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  Yep! SJG
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  Well, my days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  It makes me not surprised to read the stories about sugaring gone wrong. I don't think the motives behind it are usually good, from either party. In this case, the guy is kind of out of it. This is the third trip he's taken her on this year...New Orleans, Mexico, Miami. He pays her rent and bills...She only sees him when she wants money or for him to buy her something. She goes like a week or 2 without even texting him, and he acts like its love...
• Papi_Chulo

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  5 years ago

  Whenever you have someone on the payroll they're gonna do their job - pretty-much applies to most people no matter the job - that's why I have a hard-time understanding PLs that feel they're somehow special beyond their $$$ w.r.t. these women - sometimes I think it's willful-ignorance and sometimes I think it's an unduly over-inflated opinion of themselves (with some exceptions) - to each their own I suppose. I *do* believe there are plenty of very needy and/or very-lonely men that fall for this hook-line-and-sinker (and plenty of women also) - I'm sure they may have their doubts but probably choose the "ignorance is bliss" route. Older people can often be more trusting due to their age or the generation they grew up in where there was a lot more of a premium on honesty - also some men have spent decades in a relationship and seem out of touch of how it really is out there. And then there is the "no man is an island unto himself" effect where these guys don't have a counter-balance of info such as TUSCL etc although sometimes being told the truth is not enough bc they may be too-vested.
• TheeOSU

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  5 years ago

  "IQ of 37 is required for a post like this." Lol, comment of the day winner!
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  that's very true.... Its crazy out there. I got out of an almost 3 year relationship and I'm seeing things a little different than before...dating styles change often and we don't really see it til we're forced into it. Women and I guess even, are brutal now a days. And I guess everyone would rather experience the glitter of fools gold rather than staring at gravel.
• lopaw

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  5 years ago

  I don't feel sorry for a grown ass man, even an old senile one for deciding to embark on this path. What do you expect? I was a sugar momma for a bit and knew exactly what I was getting into, and sure enough it ran it's course and ended badly. Lesson learned, and never again.
• Warrenboy75

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  5 years ago

  From someone who has used SA for years now I can say without a doubt I haven't had a relationship started from the site end as badly as I have had some end that were with civilians or in one very notable case a civilian that later turned to stripping. If both parties are adult about their actions and if they work at communication and you don't lie to each other ( the real key) it's a lot of fun. The problem with Icey's example is he isn't aware enough to pick up on her motives and she isn't being straight with anyone, probably including herself. And Papi is correct in the sense I am older and I sense trust and honesty mean a lot more to my generation than what I have seen with the 20-30's crowd.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  Warrenboy75 said "The problem with Icey's example is he isn't aware enough to pick up on her motives and she isn't being straight with anyone, probably including herself." The problem with IceyLoco's example is that it's made up from whole cloth as part of his ongoing serial guilt trip against PLs exchanging money for fun, whether it's on SA or in a strip club.
• Subraman

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  5 years ago

  -->"The problem with IceyLoco's example is that it's made up from whole cloth as part of his ongoing serial guilt trip against PLs exchanging money for fun, whether it's on SA or in a strip club." IF we're at the point where guys are buying any of these stories and giving them credibility, things have gotten extra silly around here
• RandomMember

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  5 years ago

  I've also been using SA for 3.5yrs and had two stripper SBs before discovering SA. Biggest difference is that SA draws on a different demographic. My two stripper SBs led awful lives of poverty and abuse. First one was a single mom at age 15 and was bringing up her 5-yr-old kid in the most squalid conditions. Second stripper SB had a previous abusive BF and he beat the shit out of her put her in the hospital. @Icey posts endlessly about his "bitches and hoes" like some kind of pathetic poser gangsta pimp. The bottom-end of the stripper world is obviously the demographic @Icey wants feels most comfortable with. First SA girl that got me hooked was a gorgeous, slender, Asian college student. Her profile wasn't much more than her picture in a bikini. Turns out she was an econ major at Duke, which has some of the highest SAT scores in the country and number 1 in economics. I had another who was student-body president in HS and a third that was cheerleading captain and voted most likely to succeed. Current is a slender blonde who models underwear and swimwear. The top 2% or 3% of SA has some real gems and it doesn't get any better. You want to spend $400 to have a stripper grind on your dick? Fine. I prefer stable, reliable, college girls for long-term arrangements where I can invite them over to my house. To each his own. For every fucking annoying cherry-picked story like @Icey's, you can find a plethora of girls who fall in love their SD. Go over to the Reddit forum and do a search. The case that @Icey describes of a senile chump in love could happen in the sugaring work, the stripper world, or in the civilian world. It's cherry-picked and rare -- and annoying just like everything else @Icey posts.
• Warrenboy75

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  5 years ago

  "IF we're at the point where guys are buying any of these stories and giving them credibility, things have gotten extra silly around here" Then again I'll play along for a couple of reasons......one to keep reality at least from my experiences in focus and two it's like checking in a poker game......sometimes you want to see the other guys hand and if it doesn't cost anything......
• twentyfive

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  5 years ago

  @Warrenboy >sometimes you want to see the other guys hand and if it doesn't cost anything.....< Giving away strategies isn’t smart, play it close and use plausible deniability;)
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  RandomMember, I'm not cherry picking, I'm posting this coz this is the experience I have with knowing her and I'm sure its not uncommon. If you think the majority of sugar babies are class presidents and honor roll students, you're out of touch with reality. CMI, maybe you shouldn't be so closed minded Just coz certain bitches are unattainable to you doesn't mean they're unattainable to everyone. I've been dating strippers since I was 17. My first girlfriend worked with a fake ID. I know how to connect with them, they love me. And yeah some experiences are out there... they love drama. The thing with trust and this generation is that since so much takes place online, on social media, people find it easier to fuck others over since they never have to face them. But the thing is, at the same time you get people desperately craving real connections and wanting to trust. As for this girl, its a little surreal.... like she came back from her trip and acted like it was such a hard thing to do and tells me how much she missed me and wants to see me.And I'm thinking, you just spent time in Miami doing and buying whatever you wanted.... and she's happy smoking a blunt, getting In N Out and staring at each other.... But this is something I found with strippers in general. They're not nearly as greedy as people think. But are irresponsible with money....
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  Ah, so the new strategy pretending that people are seriously engaging with you even when it's obvious they're actually just telling you that you're full of shit. Good luck with that.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  CMI, that's all you, you're projecting. Makes you sound like a moron to reject someone's experiences just coz they differ from your own. You basically act like the only possible way to interact with these bitches is to be a trick. Again that reflects on you.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  No... not because you're experiences are different. Because they're bullshit.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  That's your provincialism and myopic world view speaking. You can't relate so its bs.... You're free to not reply to my posts. But then that would take the fun out of your trolling I guess.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  I think it's adorable that you have a "Word of the Day" calendar.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  I hit a nerve with you.... you can't stand the fact that men actually date the women you can only get if you pay.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  ... lol...
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  And she's been texting me all day....
• future POTUS and Senator in training

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  5 years ago

  @icey I understand that..I'm asking them a question? K.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  K
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  So my current strategy is to turn the bitch out
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  ^^^^^^ If Icey really knows how to do that, holy shit! SJG Soror Syrix [view link] Foucault and Biopolitics [view link] PHILOSOPHY - Michel Foucault [view link] Biopower: Why We Don’t Revolt [view link] Alvin Lee – The Bluest Blues [view link]
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  SJG, its about making her realize she needs you and is dependent on you in some way. Give her what she craves, then pull back and let her chase you, give, pull back. Make her think she wants to be with you more than you want to be with her. Girls will then try to do whatever to keep you around.
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  ^^^^ Master, please teach me. SJG
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  Its really that simple.... Say she craves your attention. Give her as much as possible Then disappear for a week or so Then see her and give her what she craves Then after a week or so, tell her you'll be out of town. Whenever she gets what she wants and is used to it, you take it away but are still in contact with her, teasing her a little. Make her chase you.
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  But if you play with her that way, she will play with you in comparable ways. So the risks of getting all tripped up are very high. SJG
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  That's why you have to make sure she needs or wants you more than you do her.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  I'm getting texts from her asking me when she can see me, that she misses me. I told her I was busy and mentioned an 18 year old stripper we both know who likes me. Then she kept texting more lol That's reality nigga #ThugLife #StripClubLife
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  You're delusional for not being able to fathom my lifestyle. I can fathom yours though.
• Mate27

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  5 years ago

  ^^ That’s dope! Meaning, your on dope.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  5 years ago

  SJG said "Master, please teach me." From anyone else, I'd assume richly deserved sarcasm. But SJG...
• Fun_Loving_Fella

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  5 years ago

  Sugar daddies are innocent victims
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  And I'm making both of the bitches jealous by letting them know I still love my ex. Just makes them compete for me more.
• san_jose_guy

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  5 years ago

  I guess I'm not qualified for high powered head games with girls. SJG Kabbalah, Magic & the Great Work of Self Transformation: A Complete Course [view link] A Brief History of Neoliberalism by David Harvey 1/5 [view link] Sammy Hagar - Standing Hampton - 1981 [view link]
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  Young women thrive on head games and wanting what other women want. Jealousy is the best way to get them...as long as you don't over do it. If they see you as desirable to other women, that gives you a higher status with them and makes them want you.
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  I'm not you
• IceyLoco

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  5 years ago

  Nope and you're just another malicious troll to block