Why do guys hit on me when I look ugly ugh

I think all women are beautiful. Thus, makeup is irrelevant. I decide to spend time with them based on their attitude. True story.

Umm ya but u don't go around approaching not pretty women lol..

Maybe its cuz I was the only girl here & the were the only men here LOL

To anyone else who comments on this , pretty sure its cuz I am only girl here..and while I don't look ugly, I don't think I look pretty rite now LOL.hair in bun..not glamorous looking 2day. ...lolz

"in my sports bra and tennis skirt hair tied up."

That's actually a very pretty look. Why do you think it isn't?

You are simultaneously overlooking and confirming a fundamental difference between how men and women view themselves:

1) No matter how smoking hot a woman may be, regardless of her flawless skin, awesome physique and dazzling smile, she will look at herself in the mirror and focus on all of her imperfections no matter how slight.

2) A guy will glance into the mirror, overlook his enormous beer belly, nasty complexion, broken and missing teeth, then do a half-ass job on his pathetic comb-over before saying to himself, “Damn! My 49 hairs are looking mighty fine today!” and strutting out the door of his mobile home expecting sexual glorification.

NO @ REVEREND. I THINK IM.BEAUTIFUL. ITS JUST THAT I HAD MY HAIR TIED UP.

TOM BRADY WOULD NEVER THINK HES AMAZING IF HE ONLY SCORED ONE TOUFH DOWN RIGHT?

SIMILARLY, I DONT THINK IM RPETTY THE DAY I LOOK LIKE A HOUSE MAID WHEN I LOOK LIKE GISELLE ON A DAILY BASIS.

IM A BEAUTIFUL GORGEOUS GIRL .STOP IT.

@dc no .I have gold locks hair..i dont look pretty when its in a house maid bun


@reverend men think like that bc they have lw standards.you need to tell ur gender to step its game up.

reverendhb...you described me to a ‘t’.

@Nicole

I don't know if that's true necessarily. I've seen a lot of girls putting their hair in a bun in a way that looks very cute.

@Reverend

I have never met a guy with that body type who has that level of arrogance, most guys I know are very insecure about their looks. I can't tell you how many times I've heard guys arguing over whether girls like a guy's pubes to be shaved or trimmed, whether girls like a guy with a beard or mustache or a clean shaven face, stuff like that. My brother think he is hideously ugly and yet he's legit probably like a 7 or so.

^ that's the millenials CC I've seen older guys with pot bellies that think they look like adonis.

@ Nicole. Ummm ... U don’t approach women at all. I engaged the women who approach me. If they don’t approach me, then I am good. I am perfectly content just looking and never interacting if that is what the night has in store for me. I love interacting, but I am also very content with simply watching.

Lol. I don’t APPROACH women at all ... fucking vodka infused wine makes my fingers not work efficiently.

When you're done up you probably look high maintenance, while when you're not you probably look more approachable. It's the whole thing where a lot of super models claim guys don't hit on them; most guys know their league and don't often reach out of it.

White men like the natural look.

But I'm sure you look great with or without makeup.

I'm sure you look fine in any condition. What might be different is that you looked more approachable at that time. By thinking that you weren't all dolled up, maybe you were more relaxed and weren't thinking about how you were carrying yourself....you were just chillin. Most guys are shy or intimidated by attractive girls who are dressed up to the nines or they see a hassle there. But when you see a girl who just seems to be relaxing, it's easier to approach her.

Maybe you don't realize it, but guys are a lot more discerning of a girl's looks than you might think.