I don't believe in dating...dating is fixated on horniness, not long lasting rel

Again..if your purpose to date is FOR HOOKUPS, then this post does not apply to u and plz move on from reading it.thx

Nicooooooole me luv u long time

Nicoooooole me want cookie

Nicoooooole I dont wanna hook up I wanna connect

Nicooooooole let's netflix and vape and fuck

Nicoooooole cum over and say hello to my little friend

Nicoooooole let's go on a bird watching date, my fav bird is the swallow

Wait. Pretend I never made this post. I'm sorry...I meant to say I don't believe in dating for me in particular .for the rest of society o guess its fine lol. I don't wanna impose my beliefs on anyone

Nicole, dating is what replaced the Victorian Parlor courtships. And then for some, hook ups replaced dating. But hook ups are more used by college students, and some of this is because such students are very busy, and also because the people are already somewhat pre-screened.

Dating is a way to spend time with someone when you are not close enough to them to just take them to bed.

Dating is for most people a way of starting long term relationships, rather than the hook up script. Post college most people do back down from the hook up script and return to the dating script. They have become more conservative, and also the people are not pre-screened.

So today, dating is about as slow as it gets, unless like you and the other are part of a church group or something. But even then, usually they will next go to dating.

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It’s ok Nicole it’s actually kind of interesting . But I just don’t know how else to get to know a girl if I don’t go out on a date with her. I don’t see how it can escalate. I’m a horny guy and like sex but If I’m dating somebody it means it means I’m vey interested and I’m trying to see if this person is a fit for me.

Its just because you don't know her well enough to take her directly to bed.

SJG

U don't need to go on a sexy dinner to get to kmow someone. U get to know someone by casually hanging out nad getting to their hesd and heart and having substantive c9 conservations

But if you are going to hang out, that has to be somewhere.

Maybe in college you can do it your way, the park, the school, the student center, the library.

But outside of college women seem to need to see the car keys and the wallet in action. If you are not handing money to them, they seem to want to see you spend money on them.

For myself, I don't think that way. But it does work. With most women the car keys and wallet date does seem to be the toll to get them into bed. Most of them take the car keys and wallet date very seriously.

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I mean sure if ppl didn't conventonally date we wouod probably have less babies whicbbis why I kinda took back what I said..but even if ppl do conventionally date , no doubt that our culture is doing it so wrong. U can date by getting to know a person ifu prioritize havjng real conversations more rather than. The flowers , sex etc..so my point is that dating should focus more on having real conversations amd having a meaningful time rather than flirting.I feel like flirting is the icing on cake .

DC I believe that what holds it together is common values and respect and the desire to not just be together but the ability to be what helps ur partner be their best..a lot of times that's determined by chemistry rather than choice

Well, most car keys and wallet dates do include lots of time for talking.

Most women seem to use it as a screening ritual.

That is, you can get a phone number off of most women at the first approach. But this does not mean instant sex, or getting into your car. No, you have to plan the date and call her on the phone.

The guy who approaches her could be anyone. But the guy who calls her and picks her up in his car, is thus screened. So usually the girl will soon be giving it up.

In the organization I am building, there will never be any need for anything like car keys and wallet dating, too consumerist.

SJG

In my observation, post college, most women would look down on a guy who does not offer the car keys and wallet date. Trying to move faster than that with her would be taken as a show of disrespect.

In college maybe not, but just by them being students, they are already pre-screened for socio-economic status.

SJG

Once the girl no longer lives with her parents and is not being supported by them, the car keys and wallet date is usually both a requirement, and also a perfectly sufficient toll.

SJG

What I meant to say is yuck. No girls allowed Nicole. We only want sausages here.

Any dudes on here want to netflix and vape and fuck?

Nicole, in a college environment, maybe people can 'hang out', and eventually they might become close.

But after college most women seem to go for the more conservative script of the car keys and wallet date. Unless they are getting money, then they seem to need to see it being spent on them. Outside of college, people are not really screened in anyway. I feel this is why they need to see the car keys and the wallet in action.

But with that then, usually a car keys and wallet date will result in quick escalation and move quite quickly to the bedroom.

Most women out of college are really dying for more car keys and wallet dates because they are lonely and because they know that they are aging. They can be quite aggressive in dangling the bait, especially in the work place

Once that bait is taken and the date invitation made, it will usually turn into an overnighter.

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