Gagging, spitting and drool during BJ

Not particularly appealing though I’ve experienced and enjoyed some milder forms. Seems like another fetish/genre from porn. Also seems to go along with some domination leaning girls. Sometimes involves some “head control” where she places your hands so that you dictate depth, speed etc.... I’m not a fan of the extreme spectrum, “throat fucking” where the girls can’t breath, are choking/spitting up and eyes watering.

Steeldog, I feel like the better question is what YOU think about it and about your recent experiences with it. I think I'd be into it if the lady didn't mind, and even more so if she was into it too.

This last girl was upfront about wanting to be dominated and such so I did. It was good but not everyday thing I would want. I tend to want the woman to enjoy things as much as possible. It seemed to be enjoyable for her and/or she is a really good actress.

I'm not a fan and in fact I will stop the bj if I see she is gagging, etc.

I like my BJs to be a warm up to the main event, so it's not a turn on to work it too much.

@steeldog65: “I tend to want the woman to enjoy things as much as possible.”

See, that’s the thing. For some women that’s exactly how they “enjoy things as much as possible.” While it’s true that some do it just to please their partner, many do it precisely because they enjoy being dominated.

So when you say you want them to enjoy it as much as possible, but don’t want to do they things that make that possible, you’re depriving her. :)

GMD, actually why I am a willing , if you will, participant. I don't need that but it can be fun and if she is into it, so much the better. I like to control a BJ sometimes, other times c'est la vive.

Best BJ girls are those that are really into it. Slow, deliberate, rhythmic sucking - while her hair caressing your abs and thighs. Ever so often pausing and looking up to see how you are doing. Occasional gagging, spitting, drooling ok. Rushed job not ok.

A lot of girls want to go way too fast, I blame porn for that. I prefer good suction and medium to slow pace.

^^^^^ winner winner chicken dinner.

It's just too much and I don't see appeal but each to their own.

I, too, have seen great variances from one who insists I cum in her mouth to others who threaten to cut your balls if you cum. My favorite is when she makes love to my dick. The ladies don't have to worry about throat fucking with me - I'm too short. However I'm thick as can be so if she can't breath through her nose, I've had some gagging and drooling which I really don't like.
An old friend recently sent me videos of her sucking her BF and he's a little bit longer than usual and she crook it all in ( with his hand on the back of her head). Variety makes the world go round.

i love a well done bbbj. but i resist the idea of putting my hands on her head. i let her decide on speed and depth. and i like her teeth making contact.
(i know I’m weird.)

My previous ATF used to like me to fuck her face....She could take it pretty well, a minor occasional gag reflex...Those turn me on, but I stop or ease up if its more than momentary gag...She would always brag that she never gagged at all...So when I got that occasional reflex from her it make me feel good that my dick was long enough to go past her tonsils..

I was fucking my wife's face once time and she gagged quite a bit....She told me not to stop, and she ended up puking...

No matter what I never pull her head hard, I always have a light touch if at all so she can control what's going on ultimately.

Big fan of drooling and spitting.