It seems to be common knowledge that strippers don't want to be "rescued," and just exploit the white knight tendencies of guys for money. But lately I've come across a few that genuinely want to be saved from the dancing life.
A former ATF who I had been seeing OTC off and on for a year and a half told me she met a guy, was gonna quit dancing and get married. She's russian, super hot, and here only semi-legally (had a VISA but no work permit, at least as far as I know). So there's definitely an immigration aspect to all this, but I'm pretty sure she is not intending on working anymore at all, even in a regular job- despite the fact that she just moved into a $2000 / month apartment.
She did the same thing about a year ago, had some guy sign a lease for her and move in together while she quit dancing and working altogether (which resulted in an "unplanned" pregnancy and abortion). They broke up after he literally kicked her out and changed the locks, and we started seeing each other again while she went back to dancing. She's always talked about wanting a normal life, kids, etc, but would then also text me about having threesomes and shit with other customers. She's definitely a BPD case- even without papers had moved apartments 4 times in a year, so I wasn't surprised when all of a sudden she decided to marry some guy she's known for about 3 months and immediately talk about having kids.
Another Russian I knew, who was much less crazy, in school, and way more stable, did a similar thing. I texted her to see when she'd be working next and she said she was done with dancing- and married and pregnant to boot. She said she needed a new life, and she got it. This girl I think has a shot at making it work, the first girl less so.
I wonder how common this is with immigrant Eastern European girls- they have the option of doing a husband-for-hire thing to get a green card, but that costs money, so I think a few of them are actually looking to settle down with somebody. I might have gone for it with the first girl, but I'm married and wasn't quite ready to blow up my entire life for a stripper. If I was single- who knows?
