Thanksgiving is a time for reflection and I'm certainly thankful for all the dancers who provide extras and make SCing a fun experience.
While in this reflective mood, I thought about my very first extras experience and considered myself fortunate to find the right dancer at the right time:
I had been clubbing for almost a year at topless clubs and occasionally a dancer would ask me to the VIP and promise a fun time but the idea of a BJ, HJ, or FS had not entered my mind.
Wanting a see new and nude dancers I decided to visit one of the nude clubs in COI. After reading Yelp reviews I decided to visit Synn. As I unaware of extras, I visited with the idea of buying a few lap dances.
I bought a few dances from dancers and while I had a good time, it was only a slightly a better experience than the topless clubs. As I was about to leave a dancer sat with me and we talked about the VIP. She was explicit about what could happen but as I didn't believe her I decided to turn down her offer.
I returned to Synn a few weeks later and the same dancer approached me and after a few great nude lap dances she starts selling the VIP. Again she was explicit, saying she could give me a HJ, BJ, or FS. After she explained what FS included, I was ready to go and off we went.
I paid for the room and she asked for a $$ tip but I told her I only had $. Disappointedly, she countered she would just dance and I could tip her whatever I wanted.
I was confused but as she undressed and started dancing and grinding she takes a condom and lube out of her purse and tells me to undress.
She puts the hat on and starts with a nice, slow cbj. I could not believe this was happening.
She asks me if I want her to get on top and I say to hop on. She rides slow cg and then goes rcg and begins to speed up.
The disbelief is long gone and it's time for me to get mine. She asks me what position I want next and we go doggie. She starts work it but I can not hold back and I start pumping her.
She moves into missionary and her legs synchronized into different positions. As if on perfect que, she wraps he legs around my back, squeezes, and moans making me blast off.
As we get dressed, she makes small talk, gives me her phone number, and gives me a big hug and kiss on the cheek.
I visited her two more times and those experiences were just as much fun as the first time.
Afterwards, with the world of club extras available I decided to move on and experience extras with as many dancers as possible.
I reflect upon my the extras experienced and give thanks for the dancers willing to perform them.
Feel free to relate your first time extras experience.
I became a somewhat regular SCer while living in Dallas which is not a big extras city - so like you (and many others probably), I also thought that girls promising "a great time in VIP" were basically just trying to get $$$ out of me w/o really following-thru - it wasn't till I became a TUSCLer and became TUSCLarly educated that I became convinced what some dancers could do - still I was never a big-extras guy - these days I partake in extras more than in the past but it's not my main-thing w.r.t. SCing.
If I think back, I think my first extras experience was kinda forced on me as I described in my TUSCL article (but it's a long-ass article so I would not try and read-it unless you have nothing to do for a while):
tuscl.net