Stereotypes
larryfisherman
California
Tuesday, October 16, 2018 9:44 AM
The other day a petite goth type dancer with a lot of tattoos came by and talked to me for a bit. I enjoyed the conversation. Eventually she asked for a dance. She was not my type at all, so I declined. For reference I am a late 20’s black guy (well mixed).
I was very surprised she came over and talked and tried to get a dance. Usually those type of girls don’t approach me. Usually no matter which club I’m in, it’s the big booty Latinas or big booty black girls that approach me.
In the strip club do dancers factor in stereotypes when approaching customers?
If based on a stereotype if she thinks she’s not his type, she won’t approach him?
For example a big booty black girl wouldn’t approach a old white guy, or if she did it would be after she approached everyone else first.
This is not a race thread, it’s a stereotype thread. We all stereotype in different ways.
I was very surprised she came over and talked and tried to get a dance. Usually those type of girls don’t approach me. Usually no matter which club I’m in, it’s the big booty Latinas or big booty black girls that approach me.
In the strip club do dancers factor in stereotypes when approaching customers?
If based on a stereotype if she thinks she’s not his type, she won’t approach him?
For example a big booty black girl wouldn’t approach a old white guy, or if she did it would be after she approached everyone else first.
This is not a race thread, it’s a stereotype thread. We all stereotype in different ways.
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I’ve had some excellent dances from dancers you wouldn’t expect a pasty old white guy to get into...
I often look for the "alternative" type girls. I dunno, I just get along with them a bit better sometimes.
Personally, I do NOT come across as "alternative" at all. I don't have any tattoos, my hair (what little of it is left) is cut in a "conservative banker's cut," I usually am wearing dark slacks and a button-down men's dress shirt and loafers or lace-up dress shoes, I have a college education and talk with the typical North American midlands accent, I'm a typical White male WASP.
But I still GET ALONG WITH the girls who DO come across as "alternative." Tattoos, piercings, maybe a dyke-style "curtain over shaved" haircut (lower part of the scalp shaved, from lowest at neck hair-line up to about ear-tops; growing hair from above that part hanging in a curtain of hair which then falls OVER the shaved part). Dunno, though I have a theory ... (recently posted this graf below in a review) ...
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In fact, I generally recommend, for almost all strip clubs, that you look out for the girls who seem to be able to think to themselves that they will engage in "ministrations to the male" rather than for those girls who seem to "need to connect with the guy." The ones capable of distance, and therefore medical-nurse-type "ministrations," will ((counter-intuitively)) therefore make it easier for you to feel connected to them, because they are less needy, and more focused on a service-for-money exchange. But this is an aside comment about all strip clubs in general, especially about girls at clubs that are less glitzy ... a "neighborhood" style place rather than a "glamour" style place.
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BUT that being said, if there are two customers at two different tables and one’s body language seems like he’s open to being approached more (as long as he doesn’t strike me as a non-spending douche), then I will go approach that individual first no matter what he looks like.
And then again though, better if you select the girl and approach her yourself.
If one does approach you that is a good sign. But you still have to decide how interested in her you are.
SJG