I used to refer to her as my topless therapist. My better half would call them my "stripper dates" LOL. If you have $300 to spend, are you going to spend it on therapy or on a stripper?
Trap’s bugged that we in our 40’s-and-older can enjoy the company and sexual attention of attractive women much younger than ourselves, whereas 40+-yo women don’t have that outlet with hot young guys. And, I gotta admit it isn’t really fair, but... ‘Merica, Baby!!
Guys know that half naked dancers - who act as though they enjoy your company - are a nice boost to a guy’s ego and libido too.
There’s no need to see some therapist - to delve into the deep issues you might have. Just enjoy your time in the club with those hot dancers.
It’s a simple thing to understand as a guy. It can confuse women - but they are looking for deeper meaning and other bullshit. Enjoy those ass cheeks rubbing against you - and enjoy those titties in your face - because it feels great!
Just seeing and touching the women, that reacts in your body with your testosterone to release endorphins or other feel good stuff, and which makes the whole experience pleasurable. Not much more complicated than that. Women may not have a common frame of reference. We're simple.
No lost youth here. I'm just about the most open communicator in my marriage, I've let her know what went on in the club, what the dancers and I talked about. But to make her at ease. Going to the club was her idea initially. I gave them up when I got married. She noticed I was in a funk, so we re-introduced some of my missing hobbies one by one until (throat gulp) only strip clubs remained. She contemplated it and suggested it with boundaries.
Again, it was very open dialog. No lack of communication here. Hell, and I would even read Tuscl her, together. We read the posts on here together. Again, I wanted to make sure communication lines were open and trust could be built. I wasn't going to abandon her for some hoe.
She rationalized the "womanizing" was missing from my life. I had "it" in my life when she met me. Then stopped it, as a show of respect, when we got together (emotional and sexual monogamy). Once SC were back in the picture, it was really a form of womanizing that is safe for married guys! As odd as it was, womanizing was missing. Once it was added back. Everything is better. :)
I see where you're coming from, maybe it's true in general for other guys, but not me.
Truthfully, without married guys you dancers and escorts would have like no customers.
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last commentSeeing hookers and doing drugs isnt healthy. JUst admit to yourself you like ratchet shit and are a sick fuck
And, I gotta admit it isn’t really fair, but... ‘Merica, Baby!!
Guys know that half naked dancers - who act as though they enjoy your company - are a nice boost to a guy’s ego and libido too.
There’s no need to see some therapist - to delve into the deep issues you might have. Just enjoy your time in the club with those hot dancers.
It’s a simple thing to understand as a guy. It can confuse women - but they are looking for deeper meaning and other bullshit. Enjoy those ass cheeks rubbing against you - and enjoy those titties in your face - because it feels great!
Again, it was very open dialog. No lack of communication here. Hell, and I would even read Tuscl her, together. We read the posts on here together. Again, I wanted to make sure communication lines were open and trust could be built. I wasn't going to abandon her for some hoe.
She rationalized the "womanizing" was missing from my life. I had "it" in my life when she met me. Then stopped it, as a show of respect, when we got together (emotional and sexual monogamy). Once SC were back in the picture, it was really a form of womanizing that is safe for married guys! As odd as it was, womanizing was missing. Once it was added back. Everything is better. :)
I see where you're coming from, maybe it's true in general for other guys, but not me.
Truthfully, without married guys you dancers and escorts would have like no customers.
Sadly this person didn’t decide to spoil a knitting discussion board.