Just a follow up comment for our OP, nicespice.
Talked a bit about front room makeout sessions.
But in some clubs they don't do FS-ITC. In some clubs front room makeout sessions would be very rare.
So what can a guy do? Dry humping? BJ?
Well, lots of places like that in San Francisco. Where as once lap dancing was all front room, and they could potentially do anything except FS, since ownership has been consolidated and the places are 'wanna dance' clip joints, selling more fantasy than delivery.
FS might not be totally unattainable, but the pricing is so high and the time limit so tight, that in practice is is more of a fantasy.
So what can a guy do?
I have found that what works is DATYing dancers. That always goes over well, they are very responsive and clearly deeply effected by it. It also shows them that I am not focused on my own ejaculation, I am focused on getting under her skin. My load, it is being saved.
But also know that even in DV SF, girls have recited to me the 'I don't kiss' speech, only to be demonstrably reversing themselves not too much further along.
Basically it comes down to not treating them like prostitutes, or like vending machines, or ever acting like money motivates them, or like they sell sex or sex acts. I never treat them that way.
But no, those kinds of clubs will never be the type I really like. Those would be of our Latina underground, girls who do not look to the house rules for protection, the only rules they wish to follow are their own. And they want to be lining up all the OTC they can, as well as doing any FS-ITC or in their mini-van in the parking lot which they can. And makeout sessions are just a part of their nature. No reason they would ever want to decline this.
SJG
Symbolic Dimensions of the Gnostic Mass, very good!
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