Dancers: Different from what you're normally attracted to?

I like thick women but recently realized that for dances smaller women have done better for me because the physical dynamics of a lapdance are different from normal intimacy. Sitting on top of but not inserting your phallus is very different. Thick women are amazing but sitting on without insertion is painful by comparison, even crushing or snapping or bending your stuff instead of inserting. So smaller women seem better for now than large women. Though that isn't my preference IRL

Anyone else notice difference? The smaller girls I mention still have big asses but they're just not like super thick bigger girls