The stripper that got away
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
This can be many things. Say a stripper that worked at a club briefly, but you never got a dance with her. Or it could be a stripper that you danced with once hoping to cultivate a more substantial relationship either regular ITC or OTC, but just quit. The one thing in common seems to be they were all really hot. The exception might be the girl you really get to know over time and build amazing chemistry, but then quits, but i don't really count that unless you have exceptional dances with her during a one time deal. I'm mostly talking about girls that you only saw once (as in dances) or once or a few times (say stage or floor) but never really interacted with. Or she really catches your eye, but you were never able to get her attention or she was busy and you never see her again. Another exception might be the unfinished business girl. A girl whom you planned to do much more with, but never got to, or you ran out of money before you could do anything really fun with her or it started getting good :( and vowed to come back with replenished funds. In all cases, these are girl you come back to a club hoping to see again, but never do. I tend to be a present, in the moment kind of guy, but i do spend more time than i care to admit wondering about all these girls that could have been and there have been quite a few of them.
Do you think about the stripper that got away?
Do you think about the stripper that got away?
13 comments
You hit it off with a girl, follow thru with it, and then keep on seeing her regularly after.
For myself, I think this is a good way to play it. Same for AMPs and Street Hookers as well.
SJG
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There was another dancer, I'm guessing she was 28, maybe 30 at the most. Drop. Dead. Gorgeous. Blonde, curvaceous and very feminine. This was a different time. Before every dancer had tats and piercings and an attitude. Like seriously, if I wanted to date someone like that, I could just date a guy. She would often wear dresses on stage. And she carried herself like a lady, a naughty lady, but still a lady. She was so gorgeous I could barely look at her, could barely talk to her.
Then the drinking age was raised to 21 and I suddenly couldn't go to men's clubs anymore. Like wtf? I'm old enough to go to war and get killed but you won't serve me alcohol? Anyway, by the time I was legal again she was gone. It's dumb of me to think of her as the one that got away, because I was just a boy and she was a woman. It was 10 years before I met another dancer who was as beautiful as she was, but it wasn't the same, and I would trade every date with that other dancer for the chance to go back in time a little older and a little wiser.