To Be Considered a Sexual Minority?
san_jose_guy
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As it is with gays, and with polyamorists, should the regular users of strip clubs be considered as an alternative lifestyle sexual minority? And exactly who is to be included, and how far does it go?
Responding to DirkDiggler's thread
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5367…
And Lopaw, as one of our very few female regular patrons of strip clubs, has there ever been a time when you have considered being a dancer, even part time, like on weekends?
SJG
Responding to DirkDiggler's thread
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5367…
And Lopaw, as one of our very few female regular patrons of strip clubs, has there ever been a time when you have considered being a dancer, even part time, like on weekends?
SJG
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Showing little interest in or ability to maintain marital monogamy.
Possibly being 'out' about the above, but maybe not.
Doesn't that describe a sexual minority which has, practices which differ from the majority of the surrounding society?
SJG
Now aware of any such place, and no I don't want to know where there are any.
Wildbourbon, why don't you go back to chewing on redwood bark, or whatever it is you do.
SJG
That's not a minority, you nitwit.
Refusing monogamy, preference for P4P, learned to especially like women in high heels and makeup, and learned how to engage with some often rather mercenary and down trodden girls, this doesn't constitute deviance from established social norms to such an extent that it amounts to the establishment of a sexual minority? I am talking about the frequent patrons of strip clubs.
too inclusive, including swingers, polyamorists, BDSM people and other perceived "sexual strangers".
"Others referred to as "sexual minorities" include fetishists and practitioners in of BDSM (bondage, dominance, and submission), and sadism and masochism"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_min…
For the regular user of strip clubs, and especially for those seeking FS-ITC and OTC, and with more than just two or three women, and for those who have developed a special taste for women in stripper attire?
SJG
It's intellectually dishonest to those who are actual minorities and have a verifiable beef.
Since the sexual (male on male) relationship wouldn’t exist, the female should be secure in her role, as she would be the center of the family.
I’m guessing it would also allow for one person to stay at home and raise the children - as there would be two incomes brought home. The question that would be interesting is - would another man stay home to be Mr. Mom to another man’s child?
It sounds like the ideal mate mix giving you the best of both worlds. You probably would never get bored with your guys assuming you could keep conflict and jealousy out of the picture.
Locally we have had all women's shows at a lesbian bar. The girls who dance at it though are the same girls who dance at our other local clubs. They are the ones who tell me about it.
Bj69, consider that if you go back far enough, most male homosexuals were either married to women, or probably Catholic Priests. They were not 'out', not really even to themselves. Many of them suffered horribly, thinking they had some sort of a serious moral defect, and submitting themselves to psychiatrists and psychotherapists to be 'cured'.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0297884/?ref…
And today, Swingers, many such, do see themselves as a sexual minority. Although swinging generally appeals to those on the Right.
Stan Dale was a long term proponent and practitioner of polyamory.
http://w11.hai.org/stan/
Some people are able to make polyamory work long term, without it having to be P4P, and without it having to resemble the far right ownership systems of the LDS inspired Utah polygamists.
For a guy who just occasionally goes to a strip club and does what is done, that is one thing. But for a guy who is committed to only having strippers and other pros as sex partners, I believe that that is an alternative sexual lifestyle. And likewise for dancers who want nothing else but that. I have known such, one I mentioned before, knowing her locally, but she mostly dancing at the SF Market St. Cinema. All she wanted was as much sex as possible, and money was really only a secondary objective. She wanted to be with people who were like her, radicals. That was what was most important to her. And the same goes for those I've called, "The Beloved Latina Escorts".
SJG
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