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gatorjoe2
Florida
So I go to one of my favorite places, enjoying myself on a Sunday afternoon, a dancer sits down with me and we are talking. She looks at me and mentions that I look familiar and mentions some places she has danced at since she is not local and is traveling through. She looks familiar, but I can't put the face to a place as it definitely wasn't the current location.
No big deal, case of mistaken identity. These girls use that line all the time as a way to try and make a connection. My mind starts going back and trying to think, because now that she said it, she does look a little familiar. I mention a place that Io went to several times, and yup sure enough it was her. How do I know? I had parts of her life story that are too odd or weird for somebody to make up. Needless to say, she kept the pretty face, but probably has add 40 lbs (I probably have as well). It had been over 4 years, but somehow still a fun connection.
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Second weird part of the night, spend the last couple of hours with a couple of fun 5/6's. They were enough fun that I would join them in the outside world for a meal and drinks. Needless to say I get their numbers. The next day I do some facebook background checks to see what I can learn. So it takes me all of ten minutes to find one of their real profiles. I click on it and start looking through the photos...
Kids... Check (she said had them)
Engagement to a Guy... 6 Months ago with a relationship starting 2 years ago
In Lesbian Relationship... Wait? What?
I check the engagement, nope definitely a dude. They have lots of bf/gf pictures.
The lesbian lover only recently do they have photos together... So my inner thoughts want to know more, so I click on the photo of the dude. He is tatted up, full sleeves, chest piece and neck. Damn, if this is the type of guy she likes, fuck that shit. I look more like the guy in accounting than the guy fixing the Harley.
Than I start look looking at the tats, yep a full elbow swastika, SS on his neck, thor's hammer, and a couple of references to a white supremacist group. I look at some of his posts, while he had nothing blatant, lots of his friends are making references to white supremacy. I go back and look at the photos of the two of them, yep, he definitely has them in the pictures with her. So I have to assume that she is okay with that stuff right? I mean they is difference from being the drunk uncle racist to being full on white supremacist racist, right? On some level this has to be a sign to run as fast I can the other direction right and ignore her if I see her at the club because I don't want to be dead, right?
Also, somebody had posted on her website what happened to the dude, he had been on the run for several years for a hate crime and he been arrested and brought back there.
No big deal, case of mistaken identity. These girls use that line all the time as a way to try and make a connection. My mind starts going back and trying to think, because now that she said it, she does look a little familiar. I mention a place that Io went to several times, and yup sure enough it was her. How do I know? I had parts of her life story that are too odd or weird for somebody to make up. Needless to say, she kept the pretty face, but probably has add 40 lbs (I probably have as well). It had been over 4 years, but somehow still a fun connection.
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Second weird part of the night, spend the last couple of hours with a couple of fun 5/6's. They were enough fun that I would join them in the outside world for a meal and drinks. Needless to say I get their numbers. The next day I do some facebook background checks to see what I can learn. So it takes me all of ten minutes to find one of their real profiles. I click on it and start looking through the photos...
Kids... Check (she said had them)
Engagement to a Guy... 6 Months ago with a relationship starting 2 years ago
In Lesbian Relationship... Wait? What?
I check the engagement, nope definitely a dude. They have lots of bf/gf pictures.
The lesbian lover only recently do they have photos together... So my inner thoughts want to know more, so I click on the photo of the dude. He is tatted up, full sleeves, chest piece and neck. Damn, if this is the type of guy she likes, fuck that shit. I look more like the guy in accounting than the guy fixing the Harley.
Than I start look looking at the tats, yep a full elbow swastika, SS on his neck, thor's hammer, and a couple of references to a white supremacist group. I look at some of his posts, while he had nothing blatant, lots of his friends are making references to white supremacy. I go back and look at the photos of the two of them, yep, he definitely has them in the pictures with her. So I have to assume that she is okay with that stuff right? I mean they is difference from being the drunk uncle racist to being full on white supremacist racist, right? On some level this has to be a sign to run as fast I can the other direction right and ignore her if I see her at the club because I don't want to be dead, right?
Also, somebody had posted on her website what happened to the dude, he had been on the run for several years for a hate crime and he been arrested and brought back there.
16 comments
It’s not unusual for dancers to make poor decisions. But, since you don’t know if her white supremacist bf (of ex bf) is a jealous type, it’s best to keep your distance. The last thing you want is him putting you on his shit list.
With his ink - and his openness with his hate - I’m guessing he’s unemployed. Those guys tend to have lots of free time to hang out - shoot their guns - drink beer - and concoct schemes. You don’t want to be part of their conversations.
My bat senses tell me to run and nobody has given me a good reason not to. So i guess that place is off limits for a while.
I know racism exists, coastal area or not. I am just surprised at the acceptance of such a radical philosophy in a significant other. Isn't white supremacy a deal breaker no matter how much you love the person? Doesn't the swastika make you run the other way. Like can I transfer the fiancee' s white supremacy to her. I think yes.
Again, racists exist, but most racism I come across is more subtle than a tatted up white supremacist.
I should also note both the girls were sitting with a dark complexion man and gave me no notice of racism, not that the topic comes up.