Invitation withdrawn

Is this Trump's account? Did they finally kick him off twitter and now he has to resort to TUSCL?

^^^ LOL

Ya, it turns out that most gestures you are inspired to do for a stripper, mean far more to you than they do to her -- go figure :) In particular, the time around a young stripper's birthday is in very high demand; I'd counsel avoiding any gestures entirely during that time.

Occasionally I'll find a stripper who is in a low point during her life, and then birthdays can be pretty fun -- she desperately wants to party and validate her life, and if her best regular is her best bet, that girl is going to let loose and may well be genuinely appreciative of the fact that if not for you, her birthday would go un-marked. My longest non-overnight OTC was just such a date: took her to lunch, took her drinking, took her to the strip club, went back to the hotel room to have sex and shower, then at her urging (she obviously did not want to go home yet) got dressed again and went out to dinner and then back to the strip club to party more.

Early in my relationship with my ATF I bought her a hand tooled sterling silver bracelet with several semi-precious stones for her birthday. I paid $365 for it. She thanked me with a blow job for my birthday (the same day) but later said that she didn't wear nice jewelry - only costume jewelry and that she would have been happier with the money. I later found that she pawned it for $50.

Was your ATF's name Nina? Lol...

Ha ha ha! Nina is the epitome of stripper shit!

I've pretty much always resorted to cash when I want to give a stripper a "gift." I've seen too many dressing room garbage cans overflowing with flowers and chocolate passed around after the PL left to consider much of anything else truly appreciated. I suppose it's possible that shoes would be appreciated as much as cash.

In my glass-half-empty PL-mind, 99% of the time strippers want us around only when they want/need $$$, or have some type of issue they think we can solve for them - they have a life outside the SC and most don't really want us to be part of that life - i.e. her birthday is usually to enjoy w/ her friends not the guy that pays-her for her to be w/ him - i.e. they rather not "be on the clock" dealing w/ a PL if they don't have to - i.e. IMO although you were thinking of her on her birthday, most likely she was not thinking of you - that's the way the game is.

IMO we should see strippers more along the lines of business-associates rather than pseudo-girlfriends that way there may not be as many stories of broken feelings - i.e. they are providing a service

@Papi I sort of agree with that about they have private lives but these girls string these guys along intentionally knowing that they are causing drama I just think many of them are manhaters looking to get even for whatever was done to them in their past. Many of these guys especially the younger ones miss the point.

^ mismatched expectations - certain PLs are looking for love (consciously or subconsciously) and most dancers are just looking to get paid

^^^That a definite truth.

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Isn't looking for a new wife one of the main reasons to go to a club in the first place?

Get a grip, meat, stop making every thread about me in your small brain please.

Or keep talking about me randomly. Either way is fine.

Interesting question. I recommend cash for any and all stripper gifts. Remember - dancers aren't girlfriends. Regardless of your perceived connection - it's business - and cash is never out of style.

@KJ702, Pull yourself together, man! The BH PL look is really unflattering on anyone.

My ex ATF mentioned no one was doing anything for her bday. I bought her some stuff from bath and body works. She was appreciative because I was the only one to do something for her. She gave me a celebratory BJ for my kindness. :-)

But in general gifts are a no-no

Pm me your atf!! ^^^ Lol, just kidding.