Observations on millennials and thoughts on the future

My understandings are also skewed because I get so much of my info from strippers but I think you are right on almost every point. The only thing I might disagree with is the implication that millennials don't want traditional dating. I think the women often seek out a traditional dating/boyfriend relationship, perhaps because they truly desire a marriage with kids, but the guys resist it and smartly refuse to play that game. Good for them. Young guys today get more pussy than I did when I was as young, and they don't put up with as much bullshit as I did to get it.

Good points. Me being a Gen-Xer I really can't stand Millennials, and I deal with them a fair amount in my job so I feel like I know what I'm talking about.

I read a great quote about them today: "Never has a generation documented themselves so much, doing so little." (dig at Instagram, selfies, Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, etc. etc.)

A lot of Millennial men grew up with access to free and good porn via smartphones and computers so they've masturbated so much they even have trouble performing sex, so much this has destroyed the traditional marriage in Japan, and may even decimate populations in some developed countries over the next decades. I thought nobody could masturbate more than me, then I met Juice and JS69, but the Millennials even put those guys to shame. With porn glamorizing lesbians, young men having unrealistic expectations when it comes to real sex because of what they have viewed in porn, no wonder women are becoming bi-curious. I also run into a lot of bi-sexual Millennial males in my travels, and this transgender/binary/gender-free stuff still blows my mind.

My last comment is about what a University professor I'm friends with told me. He said "damn these girls are awfully sexually open" (he travels with students often) but he said he feels they have had less sexual partners than he did when he was their age. They may by sexually "experimenting" much more than him, but with less people. - just a theory, not a fact.

We were all idiots when we were 21.

Your points are accurate, hope i dont end up with one of these used up emotional trainwrecks. Millenial women mostly lack discipline and at the first sign of hardship run for the hills. Not too unlike their parents. The millenial criticism always make me laugh.Other gens are completely absolved of responsibility. Who raised them wolves?

tl;dr

I believe surveys show millennials have less sex than previous generations, not more. If that is the case, it could be due to one or more of the following:

1. Porn raises men's physical standards
2. Promiscuity satiates men's sexual appetites
3. Social media raises women's lifestyle expectations
4. Women's representation in college and the workforce coupled with Uncle Sam's generosity reduces women's financial dependence on men.

im a gen xer as well and haven't had that many issues with younger generations except for their widespread support for Bernie and higher taxes for everyone and their naive opinion that everything will be better if the government controls more of our lives and they say they are going to give free this or free that. Nothing is free. Someone always pays. With governments, if they say they are going to give something for free, you can be sure they are going to make a lot more people pay a lot more than they give back. Young people seem to not realize the more power governments have, the poorer everyone else becomes.

Before health care was mandatory, I could skip paying high insurance for medical if I didn't have a job or in between. Now everyone will have to pay huge fines when they don't have enough money to pay for the insurance to start with. Apparently congress thinks it's acceptable to make everyone pay big fines if they dont have health insurance and must think it's ok to let insurance companies keep raising premiums. I do not. If I was president, I would be busting my butt coming up with a better plan and getting support from members of congress and the people. I'd probably make enemies from insurance companies but they seem to know the current system isn't going to last anyway but they are making record profits at the expense of the poor and middle class who can least afford it.

Insurance premiums run as high as 500 something a month. If I had paid that without companies paying the bulk, I wouldn't have had money for everything else and that cost is several times higher than all my lifetime medical bills in only a little over a year. I had one accident one year that cost about 8000 at the hospital before insurance. 550 a month times 10 years is over 50,000 insurance companies have robbed from my pay. I realize I never saw that because companies I worked for paid the bulk but they could have paid me the bulk if they weren't paying insurance companies on my behalf. Make that 20 years and the numbers are even worse.

In case anyone wonders why people would rather pay government fines for not having insurance. Those fines are going up to. I have relatives paying the fines who are unemployed. The fines hurt people while they are down and poor.

With our current system, I'd rather just pay for catastrophic medical like emergency hospital visits due to injuries or a major illness and pay for everything else out of pocket as needed. That would be a lot cheaper than 550 a month insurance.

A porn site like DormDare seems to confirm several of those points.

• there are enough promiscuous college kids that groups of them gather in parties and have public sex
• being in porn isn't a stigma because they allow themselves to be recorded
• there's no stigma for girls being bi. It seems more common for a female spectator in one of those videos to join in with another female

However, I wouldn't say these parties are exclusively new to today. I went to parties like that in the 80s. The difference is that back then there were no convenient digital cameras to take pictures and video with.

Plus, there were plenty of promiscuous girls - they just weren't so obvious about it. I was recently in the vicinity of a college sorority rush event and it might as well have been a mass stripper audition. 100s of girls and I bet there wasn't 10 of them with a bra on. Massive nip and jiggle fest.

Yea, my post should not be misconstrued as criticism or any type "get off my lawn" comparison of one generation to the next. Trying to be as non-judgmental as possible.

And, shit, I don't think it is necessarily bad to pursue self happiness and shake off the constraining chains of social norms or religious dogma.

Point is, never before has it been so easy to go off the rails for these young honeys. A beautiful young woman needing cash can go do porn and make thousands whenever they want where as before, they wouldn't know how to do that easily. Never before has the path of least resistance be so easy to find and go down. Easy money calling to them. Beckoning constantly and there is no longer much of social stigma for them not to pursue it.

Never mind whether the stigma has faded or whether social norms have changed. Adjusted for inflation, millennials are worse of financially. Millennial girls have sex with midlife crisis types like JohnSmith types because working at McDonalds or the school library won't pay for college:

Millennial math: jobapplicationcenter.com

*off

"DormDare seems to confirm several of those points"

LOL.

Yeah . . . DormDare is not real.

There really hasn't been a set consensus for where Gen X ends and the Millennial generation begins. All I know is, I was born either right at the end of Gen X or right at the beginning of the Millennial generation.

I personally associate more with Gen X than I do with Millennials. I deal with a ton of true Millennials on a daily basis and a lot of them just don't give a shit about anything. They don't see the importance of working hard and being rewarded for hard work. Instead, they have a sense of entitlement, and think things should be handed to them without making an effort to earn it.

With Millennials, just take away their cell phone and they will go insane because you just took away their entire life.