It is a balance unless your loaded like a baked potato at a steak house lol.
So with sex not offered ITC but good two way contact how does one not make a stripper fat in the club so you can angle for outside fun ?
You got to spend something...you can't just seat their like s log...no one would engage with you
The same time you don't want to go broke buying dances then not have the cash when OTC is finally offered
I purpose a detailed budget
Let's say you got $800 every month to club with
$400 at Max should be spent ITC either in the form of one trip per month or two trips per month to maybe four trips per month
You have to have fun with them and demonstrate you do have the cash to play
Then I propose you just save the other $400 at minimum for OTC activities
What do y'all Pro's think ?


I also suggest that you spread the cash around so no single girl truly makes bank..but they can see you spending all around...plus this gives you a chance to talk with multiple girls in hopes it increases the odds one will take the otc bait