Ever ask a dancer to grab her pussy?

No, because that's not the way to do it.

SJG

The title makes it sound as if you were asking the dancer to grab her own pussy

Kitty play is not necessarily a must-have for me - every now and then I go down there and if it's a topless club I just move the thong to the side , they'll either push my hand away or let me proceed

^^^^^ Strip clubs are better than AMP's because you can engage in front room friendliness, and only invite your girl to the back room when it is time for your own pants to come down.

AMPs are not hang out places, so their front rooms are not conducive to such.

The issue is not saving money, it is simply building intimate rapport with your girl before you commit to the back room session.

It isn't so much testing her, rather you want to get her off script and into a more civilian mode. And to do this, you need to be able to lead the interaction, and this is much easier in the front room.

SJG

Nah. I've touched and played a few times when it was obvious it's okay. One time the girl pushed her bottoms to the side, took my fingers and guided them in.

Another time a dancer pulled down her bottoms to her knees and bent over with her back to me. This was right after Trump inauguration, so I did exactly that, I grabbed it, lol. I told her later that I felt "presidential" for a brief moment. She thought it was funny.

But I usually don't bother, I'm a tits man. Plus I frequent topless clubs.

nuttin like the feeling of pussy. especially in a topless club.

and especially if she likes it.

I have no idea what " grabbing pussy " means, uness it's FIV.

i imagine it would definitely be harder logistically to "grab" bare pussy in a topless club and i tend to frequent nude clubs. Someone mentioned just moving the thong to the side i'm guessing in a regular dance. Probably in a black club, some of the girls might let you do it as black chicks in general tend to be "easier", but in a "regular" club, the girls work at a topless club (when they work in an area that has both) because they're not comfortable with nudity or pussy play. In that case most girls would probably get quite offended if you moved the thong aside let alone grabbed their junk...