I'm viewing some training at work and it's about being healthy and all. One of the topics it's covering is habit(s), why we do them and how to break bad ones and develop new ones. The process of a habit is cue (what triggers), response (the action we take), and reward in that order.
So I figured I'd ask what's your cue, response, and reward for strip clubbing?
I always thought training videos was a euphemism for porn
Mine is the same as shadow with the addition of being horny as a cue.
As a matter of fact I'm debating a trip to the club today. The horny part is there, the time availability is there, I need to check on the money part. The money factor is the biggest piece for me.
Who said fidelity depends on our options? I see that as the trigger for strip clubs..if I have a free day and some extra $ I'll try to go. Sometimes rewarded, other times a case of blue balls. TUSCL has definitely helped in the reduction of blue ball days though!
The cue is horniness but the prerequisites are sufficient time and money. I'm horny and have money today but I'll have time tomorrow, so I'm working enough today that I can take tomorrow afternoon off and get a much-deserved BBBJ (or possibly two). After all, it's been a week!
I go there to pray
Using strip clubs as your primary source of sexual gratification is perverted.
The cure is to treat the women as you would any other woman, and start spending time with them and bedding them.
SJG
For me the cues these days are more boredom or if I'm feeling stressed out about shit and just go to a strip-club where I will usually forget about the real-world for a while - I have done so much SCing particularly over the last 5-years that's it's mostly a same-o same-o and these days don't go as much b/c I'm hard-up, sometimes I'll be hard-up from watching some porn then I really wanna hit a SC - also going to the gym down here in Miami where some of the bitches look and dress like Tootsies bitches and at times have had to hit a SC after a workout and looking at those bitches - sometimes I have not gone for a while and see a hot piece of Miami ass and that will prompt a SC visit.
I see SCs as immediate gratification w/ little effort involved - being that I'm single and no kids, I have a good-amount of flexibility w.r.t. SCing and don't have to hit a SC on any particular day just b/c I can (e.g. being able to be away from the S.O./family, etc).
I do see SC as habit-forming and for me the more I SC the more I wanna go; and if I go less I actually tend to wanna go less - my main obstacle is usually spending more than I'm comfortable with (I put having a good time above budgeting thus rather not go than go w/ a strict budget).
@MagicRat: "Who said fidelity depends on our options? "
Answer from Chris Rock: youtube.com
cue - time & money response - go reward - see, touch and maybe get BBBJs from hot females