The Downfall of a Stripper
shailynn
They never tell you what you need to know.
The Downfall of a stripper.
Some of us get to know our strippers on a level so personal we may know more about them than we do of our own children (for those of us that have kids). Gawker and JS69 have told some interesting personal stories but most others have not other than jackslash sharing his dinner menu. Something made me think of my retired ATF the other day and it made me think of her fall from grace to virtually nothing, and I thought I would share how crazy her life has been.
She came from a normal middle class family in a small town in Idaho. After graduating high school she went to a small college on a volleyball scholarship. By Halloween of her freshman year she had become pregnant. Finishing her first semester taking off the spring to have the baby, she left the child with her mom and went back to school the following fall to try again. Once again, getting pregnant, dropping out for good at the end of the semester. 19 with two children, no baby daddy money and no future. Somehow she winds up in Texas, stripping and banging pro athletes (she was that hot even after having two kids). Several boyfriends, a few husbands and next thing you know, she's 30 stripping in Vegas, divorced 4 times, 4 kids now, but 2 of the kids were lost in custody battles and live full time with their dads. Eventually she makes enough money and moves to Arizona commuting on the weekends to Vegas to strip when she needs money. Some weekends she'd clear 5K and wouldn't have to return for a month, other times she'd have to go every weekend for a month just to make rent. Living in a nice 5 bedroom house (just her and 2 of her kids) paying $2,400 a month rent, but no furniture and no car after she totaled her car in an accident. She would fly to Vegas or rent a car when she could afford it, when times were tough she'd take a bus.
About 10 months had gone by since I had last spent time with her, so I asked her to join me for Labor Day weekend in Vegas. She was so proud to be able to pay for her own flight to meet me. I let her pay for it too, since it was a big deal for her. She told me how she started putting her profile on Sugar Daddy sites and started web camming which were two things I didn't even know existed (this was around 2010). She was making good money, enough money she didn't have to go to Vegas anymore and could stay home full time. One year in she got some facial work (botox) done and spent a shit-ton on upgrading her implants to some big fake titties. Her enhancements looked overdone in person, but she looked like a 10 viewing her on a 24 inch computer screen online in the dim light. Guys flooded her cam room, and she placed 2nd, 4th and 6th in consecutive months on her cam site, making as much as $100K in one month. No joke. Like most people who have come upon a financial windfall - going from camming making $50-60K a year to making over $250,000 in 3 months she spent the money like it would never end, paying cash to buy her oldest son and her new cars (not Honda Accords), expensive family vacations all summer taking all of her 4 kids, and more plastic surgery, which ended up making her look like the cat woman more than refining her aging face.
Cam guys are finicky and of course, new girls come everyday taking away slots from her room. 400 guys in her room went down to 40, and to make matters worse, she refused to get nude (not even topless) unless someone payed for private dances with her, further hurting the numbers in her room. Luckily there were a handful of PLs worse than any guy on here sending her every extra penny they had to chat on the phone with her and for private photos and sessions.
Eventually she found another husband, uh or "sucker" and she is now in her mid 40s with 5 children, married 5 times. Her husband is at least a decade younger than her and it's hard to determine which one was conning who, because they both tried to declare bankruptcy as a couple but were denied because they both had declared bankruptcy too many times previously.
She certainly hasn't had an easy life, but I used to always tell her, every time there's a fork in the road, you always turn the wrong way - almost like she's drawn to the wrong path.
Not all strippers are like that. I met one last year who was divorced with no children. She had been stripping for 2 years and also escorted some on the side, had over $200,000 saved up, was going to do it for two to three more years until she had enough money to buy a small house in San Diego, was going to quit escorting a stripping and go back to being an elementary school teacher. She figured if her house was paid for she could afford to live on a teachers salary.
Some of us get to know our strippers on a level so personal we may know more about them than we do of our own children (for those of us that have kids). Gawker and JS69 have told some interesting personal stories but most others have not other than jackslash sharing his dinner menu. Something made me think of my retired ATF the other day and it made me think of her fall from grace to virtually nothing, and I thought I would share how crazy her life has been.
She came from a normal middle class family in a small town in Idaho. After graduating high school she went to a small college on a volleyball scholarship. By Halloween of her freshman year she had become pregnant. Finishing her first semester taking off the spring to have the baby, she left the child with her mom and went back to school the following fall to try again. Once again, getting pregnant, dropping out for good at the end of the semester. 19 with two children, no baby daddy money and no future. Somehow she winds up in Texas, stripping and banging pro athletes (she was that hot even after having two kids). Several boyfriends, a few husbands and next thing you know, she's 30 stripping in Vegas, divorced 4 times, 4 kids now, but 2 of the kids were lost in custody battles and live full time with their dads. Eventually she makes enough money and moves to Arizona commuting on the weekends to Vegas to strip when she needs money. Some weekends she'd clear 5K and wouldn't have to return for a month, other times she'd have to go every weekend for a month just to make rent. Living in a nice 5 bedroom house (just her and 2 of her kids) paying $2,400 a month rent, but no furniture and no car after she totaled her car in an accident. She would fly to Vegas or rent a car when she could afford it, when times were tough she'd take a bus.
About 10 months had gone by since I had last spent time with her, so I asked her to join me for Labor Day weekend in Vegas. She was so proud to be able to pay for her own flight to meet me. I let her pay for it too, since it was a big deal for her. She told me how she started putting her profile on Sugar Daddy sites and started web camming which were two things I didn't even know existed (this was around 2010). She was making good money, enough money she didn't have to go to Vegas anymore and could stay home full time. One year in she got some facial work (botox) done and spent a shit-ton on upgrading her implants to some big fake titties. Her enhancements looked overdone in person, but she looked like a 10 viewing her on a 24 inch computer screen online in the dim light. Guys flooded her cam room, and she placed 2nd, 4th and 6th in consecutive months on her cam site, making as much as $100K in one month. No joke. Like most people who have come upon a financial windfall - going from camming making $50-60K a year to making over $250,000 in 3 months she spent the money like it would never end, paying cash to buy her oldest son and her new cars (not Honda Accords), expensive family vacations all summer taking all of her 4 kids, and more plastic surgery, which ended up making her look like the cat woman more than refining her aging face.
Cam guys are finicky and of course, new girls come everyday taking away slots from her room. 400 guys in her room went down to 40, and to make matters worse, she refused to get nude (not even topless) unless someone payed for private dances with her, further hurting the numbers in her room. Luckily there were a handful of PLs worse than any guy on here sending her every extra penny they had to chat on the phone with her and for private photos and sessions.
Eventually she found another husband, uh or "sucker" and she is now in her mid 40s with 5 children, married 5 times. Her husband is at least a decade younger than her and it's hard to determine which one was conning who, because they both tried to declare bankruptcy as a couple but were denied because they both had declared bankruptcy too many times previously.
She certainly hasn't had an easy life, but I used to always tell her, every time there's a fork in the road, you always turn the wrong way - almost like she's drawn to the wrong path.
Not all strippers are like that. I met one last year who was divorced with no children. She had been stripping for 2 years and also escorted some on the side, had over $200,000 saved up, was going to do it for two to three more years until she had enough money to buy a small house in San Diego, was going to quit escorting a stripping and go back to being an elementary school teacher. She figured if her house was paid for she could afford to live on a teachers salary.
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Based on the politically correct, anti-sex worker culture in the US, I used to look down on prostitutes. No more, after entering this hobby. I've seen far more sex workers doing a great job of taking care of themselves, their families and friends, than I've seen get totally messed up. Sex work can be a tough occupation. At least some aspects of the career field are legal. Putting things in perspective, lots of people have tougher jobs.
Hopefully there'll be a happy ending to her story when it's all said and done.
Someone needs to tell that girl that 200k with no additional income won't buy you a small house in San Diego anymore. Maybe Temecula (exurb an hour away from the city in good traffic).
I do think sometimes sex workers are undone by their burdens. Kids, parents, semi employed baby daddy. And that's before any sisters or cousins that just need "a little help". Easy to shell out 5k a month and have nothing to show for it in the end.
Lloyd didn't steal my password, because even though Lloyd's on a strip club forum, he's the only person here to have never actually visited a strip club.
Luckily she didn't break me financially. I'd meet her in Vegas on the weekends, pay for her flight (usually only $80-110 round trip) and she'd fuck me all weekend for free since she had a place to stay (my hotel room).
Only bad part is not sure if she has 3 years left as a top earner. She said she was 30 (she looked more like late 30s) and had major anxiety issues, those two issues could hurt her earnings.